{"id":115713,"date":"2019-03-28T09:56:18","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T06:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/yalovada-cocuk-gelisimine-yonelik-velilere-seminer-verildi\/"},"modified":"2019-03-28T09:56:20","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T06:56:20","slug":"yalovada-cocuk-gelisimine-yonelik-velilere-seminer-verildi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/yalovada-cocuk-gelisimine-yonelik-velilere-seminer-verildi\/","title":{"rendered":"Yalova\u2019da \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimine y\u00f6nelik velilere seminer verildi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mutlu ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin prensiplerinin payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cDr. \u00d6zg\u00fcr Bolat ile \u2019Mutlu ve Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u00c7ocuk Nas\u0131l Yeti\u015ftirilir?\u2019\u201d konulu seminer, Yalova\u2019da ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirildi. Seminerde velilerle bir araya gelen Dr. \u00d6zg\u00fcr Bolat, \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi \u00fczerine \u00f6nemli noktalara de\u011findi.<\/p>\n

Bah\u00e7e\u015fehir Koleji taraf\u0131ndan Yalova\u2019da bir otelde d\u00fczenlenen seminerin a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 Bah\u00e7e\u015fehir Koleji Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fma ve Rehberlik Koordinat\u00f6r\u00fc \u00d6zen Yaz\u011fan yapt\u0131. Anne ve babalara tavsiyelerde bulunan Yaz\u011fan, “\u00d6yle bir \u00e7a\u011fda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz ki, bir\u00e7ok \u015fey duyuyoruz ve biliyoruz. Burada bu semineri dinlerken, \u2018Ben bunu ne kadar i\u00e7selle\u015ftiriyorum\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenizi istiyoruz. \u00c7ok temel bir \u015fey var ki insan kendini ne kadar geli\u015ftirebiliyorsa evlad\u0131n\u0131 da o denli geli\u015ftirebilir” dedi.<\/p>\n

Mutlu ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin prensiplerini anlatan Dr. Bolat, “Her anne ve baba \u00e7ocu\u011funu sever mi?\u2019 diyerek sunumuna ba\u015flad\u0131. Dr. \u00d6zg\u00fcr Bolat, vermi\u015f oldu\u011fu seminerde \u015fu ba\u015fl\u0131klar \u00fczerinde durdu:<\/p>\n

“\u00c7ocu\u011fa sevgi g\u00f6stermesini anne babalar neden etkiler? Ger\u00e7ek sevgide ko\u015ful var m\u0131d\u0131r? 2- 3 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu anne baba neden engeller? Anne baba \u00e7ocu\u011funu seviyorsa neden sevgisini g\u00f6stermiyor? Sevgi g\u00f6stermenin riski nedir? Anne baba \u00e7ocu\u011funu seviyorsa, \u00e7ocuk neden emin olmuyor? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ko\u015ful var. Ger\u00e7ek sevgide ko\u015ful yoktur. Anne baba ko\u015ful koyuyorsa \u00e7ocuk ger\u00e7ekten sevildi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyor. Zorla yemek yedirilen \u00e7ocuk sevildi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr m\u00fc? \u00c7ocuk, kendi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7in bask\u0131 yapan\u0131 sever mi? As\u0131l soru \u015fu; Sevgisiz b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7ocuklar ileride ne gibi bedeller \u00f6der?\u201d<\/p>\n

Anne ve babalara tavsiyeler<\/p>\n

Anne babalara tavsiyelerde bulunan Dr. Bolat, “Anne baban\u0131n kendisini de\u011fi\u015ftirmesi gerekir, kendi yaralar\u0131n\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmesi gerekir. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar var. Siz \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu okuldan al\u0131n ba\u015fka okula verin; bu, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fczde 27 oran\u0131nda etkiler. Burada en \u00f6nemli etken ailelerdir. Siz m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7iyseniz \u00e7ocu\u011funuz da \u00f6yle olur, siz kayg\u0131l\u0131ysan\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuz da kayg\u0131l\u0131 olur, siz kendiniz s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yorsan\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla da s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Bu anne baba okulu de\u011fil, birey olma okulu. \u00c7ocu\u011fum benle konu\u015fmuyor, \u00e7ocu\u011fum okulda ya\u015fananlar\u0131 bana anlatm\u0131yor; neden acaba? Neden? Kabul g\u00f6rmeyece\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk anla\u015f\u0131lmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Asl\u0131nda anne ve baba kabule ge\u00e7se \u00e7ocuk anlatmaya ba\u015flayacak. \u0130lkokula kadar susturamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ne oluyor da sonra konu\u015fmuyor? Yarg\u0131lar ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r hissetmiyor. Mutlulu\u011fun \u00f6z\u00fcnde kabul g\u00f6rme var. Kabul g\u00f6ren insan mutlu oluyor” dedi.

\"Yalova\u2019da <\/a> <\/div> <\/div>
\"Yalova\u2019da <\/a> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div> <\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

MUTLU VE BA\u015eARILI \u00c7OCUK YET\u0130\u015eT\u0130RMEN\u0130N PRENS\u0130PLER\u0130N\u0130N PAYLA\u015eILDI\u011eI \u201cDR. \u00d6ZG\u00dcR BOLAT \u0130LE ‘MUTLU VE BA\u015eARILI \u00c7OCUK NASIL YET\u0130\u015eT\u0130R\u0130L\u0130R?’\u201d KONULU SEM\u0130NER YALOVA\u2019DA GER\u00c7EKLE\u015eT\u0130R\u0130LD\u0130. SEM\u0130NERDE VEL\u0130LERLE B\u0130R ARAYA GELEN DR. \u00d6ZG\u00dcR BOLAT, \u00c7OCUK GEL\u0130\u015e\u0130M\u0130 \u00dcZER\u0130NE \u00d6NEML\u0130 NOKTALARA DE\u011e\u0130ND\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":115714,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[1008,28329,440,13521,634,2352,1843],"class_list":["post-115713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-cocuk","tag-gelisimine","tag-seminer","tag-velilere","tag-verildi","tag-yalovada","tag-yonelik"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/yalovada-cocuk-gelisimine-yonelik-velilere-seminer-verildi_89792e0.jpg?fit=729%2C486","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-u6l","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=115713"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115713\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":115717,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/115713\/revisions\/115717"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/115714"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=115713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=115713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=115713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}