{"id":131326,"date":"2019-04-10T16:58:14","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T13:58:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/tatar-yapabilirsin-diyecek-bir-kisi-hayatinizi-degistirir\/"},"modified":"2019-04-10T16:58:18","modified_gmt":"2019-04-10T13:58:18","slug":"tatar-yapabilirsin-diyecek-bir-kisi-hayatinizi-degistirir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/tatar-yapabilirsin-diyecek-bir-kisi-hayatinizi-degistirir\/","title":{"rendered":"Tatar: \u201cYapabilirsin\u2019 diyecek bir ki\u015fi hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nil\u00fcfer Belediyesi\u2019nin, k\u0131rsal mahallelerde ya\u015fayan kad\u0131nlara okuma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kazand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in ba\u015flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 “Kad\u0131n Hayata Yak\u0131n” programlar\u0131 ilgi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n

“Kad\u0131n Hayata Yak\u0131n” etkinli\u011fine bu kez gazeteci-yazar \u00d6zlem G\u00fcrses Tatar konuk oldu. Tatar\u2019\u0131n “Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k Hik\u00e2yeleri; Bazen Olmaz” adl\u0131 kitab\u0131n\u0131 okuyan kad\u0131nlar, Deluxe Etkinlik ve D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Salonu\u2019ndaki bulu\u015fmada yazarla kitap \u00fczerine sohbet ettiler.<\/p>\n

\u00d6zlem G\u00fcrses Tatar, Kad\u0131n Hayata Yak\u0131n faaliyetinde “Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k Hik\u00e2yeleri; Bazen Olmaz” adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda yer alan hikayelerden \u00f6rnek vererek, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in cesaretli olmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekti. “Ben kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne de\u011fil, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ve erkeklerin yan yana ve omuz omuza ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 hayata inan\u0131yorum. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcr oldu\u011fu bir d\u00fcnyada, erkekler de \u00f6zg\u00fcr olabilir ancak” diyen Tatar, “Size \u2019Yapabilirsin\u2019 diyecek olan bir ki\u015fi hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Ki\u015fisel devriminizi o cesaretle ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirirsiniz. Okuldaki bir \u00f6\u011fretmeniniz, kom\u015funuz, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z olabilir, hatta evl\u00e2d\u0131n\u0131z olabilir. \u2019Yapabilirsin\u2019, \u2019Yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u2019 diyecek bir ki\u015fi hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Bunu yapmak i\u00e7in de i\u00e7ini temiz tutacaks\u0131n, kimseyi k\u0131skanmayacaks\u0131n ve yola \u00e7\u0131kacaks\u0131n. Hepsi bu kadar” dedi.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcrk toplumunda en b\u00fcy\u00fck fobinin \u2018Ya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olursam\u2019 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi oldu\u011funu ifade eden \u00d6zlem G\u00fcrses Tatar, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda m\u00fccadele etmek gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. \u00d6zlem G\u00fcrses Tatar, “Bir g\u00fcn mutlaka yapars\u0131n, yeter ki sen dene. Gen\u00e7 arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131ktan \u00e7ok korkuyorlar. Ba\u015far\u0131 dedikleri \u015fey, bir diploma, bir maa\u015f, bir de koca ya da kar\u0131. Bu ba\u015far\u0131 de\u011fil. \u0130nsan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131mas\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131, insan\u0131n kendiyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131, kendine ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yalan s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fi bir hayat kurmas\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131. Kendinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, idare etti\u011finiz insanlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ne kadar az insan\u0131 idare ediyorsan o kadar ba\u015fard\u0131n. Ne kadar \u00e7ok insan\u0131 idare ediyorsan o kadar ba\u015faramad\u0131n demektir. O zaman sen kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 kuramad\u0131n, kendini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiremedin. Ne kendine, ne bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na d\u00fcr\u00fcst de\u011filsin. Allah a\u015fk\u0131na kulaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kapat\u0131n \u2018El\u00e2lem Ter\u00f6r \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc\u201d duymay\u0131n, ne derlerse desinler, ne yaparlarsa yaps\u0131nlar” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlardan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u2019Hay\u0131r\u2019 demeyi \u00f6\u011fretmelerini isteyen \u00d6zlem G\u00fcrses Tatar, “En sevdiklerimize \u2019Hay\u0131r\u2019 demeden, bize zarar verecek insanlara \u2019Hay\u0131r\u2019 demeyi bilemiyoruz. O y\u00fczden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n size \u2019Hay\u0131r\u2019 demesine izin vermeniz laz\u0131m ki, hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za zarar verecek insanlara \u2019Hay\u0131r\u2019 demeyi bilsinler. Bunu unutmay\u0131n. S\u00fcrekli \u2019Evet\u2019 dedirterek yanl\u0131\u015f bir \u015fey yap\u0131yoruz. \u00c7ok korumas\u0131z yeti\u015ftiriyoruz o evlatlar\u0131 insanlara kar\u015f\u0131. S\u00fcrekli \u2019Evet\u2019 demi\u015f bir \u00e7ocuk, kendini hep gizlemi\u015f, hep yalan s\u00f6ylemi\u015f, hep ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 idare etmi\u015f bir \u00e7ocuk, hayat\u0131 boyunca da buna devam eder” dedi.

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