\u00c7ocuk istismar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 koruyucu ve \u00f6nleyici tedbirler almak amac\u0131yla \u0130stanbul Ayd\u0131n \u00dcniversitesi (\u0130A\u00dc) S\u00fcrekli E\u011fitim Merkezi (SEM) taraf\u0131ndan \u201c\u00c7ocuk \u0130stismar\u0131 Fark\u0131ndal\u0131k Sempozyumu\u201d d\u00fczenlendi. Sempozyumda konu\u015fan Dr. \u015eevket Ayaz, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de son 3 y\u0131lda 13 bin \u00e7ocu\u011fun cinsel istismara u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuk istismar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemek ve tedbirler almak amac\u0131yla bireysel, kurumsal ve toplumsal y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerin de\u011ferlendirildi\u011fi sempozyumda \u00e7ocuklara y\u00f6nelik istismar psikolojik ve hukuki y\u00f6nleriyle konunun uzmanlar\u0131 ve akademisyenler taraf\u0131ndan ele al\u0131nd\u0131. \u0130A\u00dc \u00d6\u011fretim \u00dcyesi \u015eevket Ayaz; \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck\u00e7ekmece\u2019de 5 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011fun istismar edilmesi hepimizi \u00e7ok \u00fczd\u00fc ve maalesef son 3 y\u0131lda istismara u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuk say\u0131s\u0131 13 bin oldu\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 asla ihmal etmeyin<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fa y\u00f6nelik istismar olarak tan\u0131mlanan k\u00f6t\u00fc muamelelerin genel olarak, \u2018cinsel, fiziksel, duygusal istismar ve ihmal\u2019 olarak d\u00f6rt ba\u015fl\u0131k alt\u0131nda incelendi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ve E\u011fitim Uzman\u0131 Banu Kaplan Kurto\u011flu, \u2018ihmalin\u2019 en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatalardan biri oldu\u011funa vurgu yapt\u0131. Kurto\u011flu, toplumsal fark\u0131ndal\u0131k olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri de \u015f\u00f6yle anlatt\u0131; \u201d\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ihmal etmeyin. Onlara de\u011fer vererek, \u00f6nemsedi\u011finizi hissettirin. Size bir \u015fey anlat\u0131rken g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131n. Ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 takdir edin ve asla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir davran\u0131\u015fla, s\u00f6zle alay etmeyin. \u0130hmalk\u00e2rl\u0131klar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sizden uzakla\u015farak ba\u015fka insanlardan ilgi g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerinde, istismara u\u011frama oranlar\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131yor.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul edilen ama kimsenin y\u00fcksek sesle dile getirmeye cesaret edemedi\u011fi bir tabu olan enseste dikkat \u00e7eken Kurto\u011flu, \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hayal d\u00fcnyalar\u0131nda her \u015fey var ama istismarla ilgili hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yok. Yani \u00e7ocu\u011funuz gelip size istismara u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten bir \u015feyler anlat\u0131yorsa mutlaka inan\u0131n, hemen gerekli yerlere m\u00fcracaat edin. \u00c7ocuklar bu konuda her zaman ger\u00e7ekleri s\u00f6ylerler. \u00d6nemseyin ve susturmay\u0131n, \u2018O senin baban yapmaz \u00f6yle \u015fey, o senin amcan sus ay\u0131p\u2019 demeyin inan\u0131n ve destek olun\u201d diye ekledi.<\/p>\n
“Bana g\u00fcven, ne olursa olsun yan\u0131nday\u0131m”<\/p>\n
\u2018\u015eiddet Ma\u011fduru \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Rehabilitasyonunda Tiyatronun \u0130\u015flevi\u2019 \u00fczerine tez haz\u0131rlayan emekli \u00e7ocuk polisi Nuray Toprak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendilerini nas\u0131l korumas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, hik\u00e2yelerle \u00f6\u011frenmelerinin daha kolay oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 istismarc\u0131lar\u0131 korkutmu\u015f olabilir diyen Nuray Toprak, \u201c\u00c7ocuklar tehdit alt\u0131nda olup, sevdikleri insanlar\u0131 kaybetme korkusu i\u00e7inde s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olabilirler. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za ne olursa olsun bize g\u00fcvenmeleri i\u00e7in elimizden geleni yapmal\u0131y\u0131z. Onlara \u2018Bana g\u00fcven ne olursa olsun yan\u0131nday\u0131m\u2019 duygusunu kazand\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131z\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u0130ntertten yap\u0131lan istismara dikkat<\/p>\n
\u0130stismar ve ihmalin \u00f6nlenebilmesi ad\u0131na toplumun ve ailelerin bilgilendirilmesi i\u00e7in gereken altyap\u0131n\u0131n olu\u015fturulmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izen Uzman Psikolog Hazal \u00d6zcan, \u00f6zellikle internetten oyunlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, \u00e7ocuklarla duygusal ba\u011f kurup, onlarla y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye kadar giden bir s\u00fcreci ba\u015flatan istismarc\u0131lara kar\u015f\u0131 ebeveynleri uyard\u0131 ve bu s\u00fcreci \u015f\u00f6yle anlatt\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u201cAnnenin yoklu\u011fu, ilgisizli\u011fi, baban\u0131n g\u00fcven vermeyi\u015fi, sevgisizlik gibi nedenlerle \u00e7ocuk ilgi aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na giriyor. \u0130nternetten oynanan baz\u0131 oyunlarda tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanlarla konu\u015fabiliyorsun. \u00c7ocuklar oyun oynarken hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 istismarc\u0131n\u0131n bu ilgisizli\u011fi konu\u015fmalar\u0131ndan anlayarak ilerleyen s\u00fcre\u00e7te ona g\u00fcven verici ifadelerle yakla\u015f\u0131p, \u2018Oyunda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131s\u0131n, annen seni tan\u0131m\u0131yor, \u00e7ok yeteneklisin, k\u0131ymetini bilen yok\u2019 gibi \u00f6vg\u00fcleriyle duygusal ba\u011f kurmakta ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oluyor. \u0130stismarc\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zel hayat\u0131n\u0131 sormaya, hakk\u0131nda daha fazla bilgi \u00f6\u011frenmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklara g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi cinsel i\u00e7erikli birka\u00e7 foto\u011fraf ve video ile tepkilerini \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcyor. Olumsuz cevap gelmeyince ondan da ayn\u0131 tarz foto\u011fraflar \u00e7ekip g\u00f6ndermesini istiyor. Kendisini \u00f6ven ve hep ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 g\u00f6ren bu \u015fahsa g\u00fcvendi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk, kendi \u00e7\u0131plak foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekip g\u00f6nderebiliyor. Bunu yap\u0131p rahats\u0131z olmaya ba\u015flayan \u00e7ocuk, istismarc\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme teklifini kabul etmeyince ya da daha fazla foto\u011fraf isteyip g\u00f6ndermeyince, istismarc\u0131 elinde bulunan foto\u011fraflar\u0131 internette if\u015fa edece\u011fini anne ve babas\u0131na g\u00f6nderece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyerek \u00e7ocu\u011fu tehdit ediyor. \u0130pleri eline alan istismarc\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 tehdit ederek onlar\u0131 istismar etmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Bu vak\u2019alar \u00e7ok fazla. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla ileti\u015fim kurun. \u0130lgi g\u00f6sterin, takip edin. \u0130nternette neler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131na, hangi sitelerde dola\u015f\u0131p arama yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ki\u015filere dikkat edin.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c7OCUK \u0130ST\u0130SMARINA KAR\u015eI KORUYUCU VE \u00d6NLEY\u0130C\u0130 TEDB\u0130RLER ALMAK AMACIYLA \u0130STANBUL AYDIN \u00dcN\u0130VERS\u0130TES\u0130 (\u0130A\u00dc) S\u00dcREKL\u0130 E\u011e\u0130T\u0130M MERKEZ\u0130 (SEM) TARAFINDAN \u201c\u00c7OCUK \u0130ST\u0130SMARI FARKINDALIK SEMPOZYUMU\u201d D\u00dcZENLEND\u0130. SEMPOZYUMDA KONU\u015eAN DR. \u015eEVKET AYAZ, T\u00dcRK\u0130YE\u2019DE SON 3 YILDA 13 B\u0130N \u00c7OCU\u011eUN C\u0130NSEL \u0130ST\u0130SMARA U\u011eRADI\u011eINI S\u00d6YLED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":148921,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[10017,2475,33288,213,1008,279,857,3650,1240,598],"class_list":["post-148920","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-sevket","tag-2475","tag-ayaz","tag-bin","tag-cocuk","tag-dr","tag-edildi","tag-istismar","tag-son","tag-yilda"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/dr-sevket-ayaz-son-3-yilda-13-bin-cocuk-istismar-edildi_55f4d27.jpg?fit=1000%2C506","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-CJW","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148920","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=148920"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148920\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/148921"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=148920"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=148920"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=148920"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}