Bursa\u2019da hen\u00fcz 13 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken annesini kaybeden bu sebeple de o tarihte 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan serebral palsi hastas\u0131 karde\u015fine bakmak zorunda kalan Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00c7ak\u0131r (25), hem \u00fcniversite okudu hem de karde\u015finin bak\u0131m\u0131ndan arta kalan zamanlarda kitap yazd\u0131. Yay\u0131nlanm\u0131\u015f \u00fc\u00e7 kitab\u0131ndan biri olan Cennet Ku\u015fu\u2019nda karde\u015fiyle olan hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaleme alan gen\u00e7 k\u0131z, “Do\u011furmadan anne oldum. \u00d6mr\u00fcm boyunca karde\u015fime bakaca\u011f\u0131m” dedi.<\/p>\n
Sosyal Medyada \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Anne\u201d lakab\u0131yla tan\u0131nan Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00c7ak\u0131r, hen\u00fcz 13 ya\u015f\u0131nda iken 2006 y\u0131l\u0131nda annesini kaybetti. Annesinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcyle de 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan serebral palsi hastas\u0131 karde\u015fi Tufan\u2019a bakmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Tufan\u2019\u0131n yemek yemesinden tuvaletine kadar t\u00fcm ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131yla ilgilenen \u00c7ak\u0131r, bir yandan da e\u011fitimini tamamlad\u0131. Anadolu \u00dcniversitesi \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma Ekonomisi B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc\u2019nden a\u00e7\u0131k \u00f6\u011fretim yoluyla mezun olan \u00c7ak\u0131r, bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 karde\u015fini b\u0131rakamayaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7ti. Gen\u00e7 k\u0131z, karde\u015fi ile ev i\u015flerinden arta kalan zamanlar\u0131nda ise kendini yazmaya adad\u0131.<\/p>\n
“As\u0131l engel insanlar\u0131n kalplerindedir”<\/p>\n
Engelli karde\u015fi Cemal Tufan \u00c7ak\u0131r\u2019a 13 ya\u015f\u0131ndan beri annelik yapan Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00c7ak\u0131r, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc ve Engelliler Haftas\u0131na dikkat \u00e7ekerek, “Yakla\u015fan Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fcnde karde\u015fimle beraber annemin mezar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret edece\u011fiz. Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlat\u0131p ona g\u00fczel haberler verece\u011fim. Ayr\u0131ca i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz Engelliler Haftas\u0131 dolay\u0131s\u0131yla buradan herkese \u015funu s\u00f6ylemek istiyorum; \u2019As\u0131l engel insanlar\u0131n kalplerindedir\u2019. Engelliler bizim i\u00e7in bir cennet ku\u015fu onlar\u0131n sayesinde cenneti kazanabiliriz. B\u00fct\u00fcn engellilere sahip \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m. Hor g\u00f6rmeyip sosyal ortama \u00e7\u0131kartal\u0131m. Biz Tufan\u2019\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn aktivitelere g\u00f6t\u00fcrmeye gayret ediyoruz” \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Sosyal medyada y\u00fcz binlerce takip\u00e7iye ula\u015ft\u0131<\/p>\n
Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00c7ak\u0131r, kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 hik\u00e2yeleri internet ortam\u0131ndan yay\u0131nlayarak y\u00fcz binlerce takip\u00e7iye ula\u015f\u0131rken yay\u0131n evlerininde dikkatini \u00e7ekti. \u0130lk kitab\u0131 \u2018Seni Allah i\u00e7in Sevdim\u2019 2017 y\u0131l\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Bir y\u0131l sonra \u2019T\u00f6vbe\u2019 isimli kitab\u0131 bas\u0131ld\u0131. \u00c7ak\u0131r\u2019\u0131n son kitab\u0131 ise karde\u015fi ile ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u2018Cennet Ku\u015fu\u2019 oldu. Annesini kaybetti\u011fi zaman\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131n en zor d\u00f6nemi oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00c7ak\u0131r, “Bir anda annesiz kald\u0131m. Karde\u015fim ve babamla beraber kald\u0131k, kendimi yaln\u0131z hissettim, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir bo\u015flu\u011fun i\u00e7indeydim. Sonra kendimi toparlad\u0131m. Kendime, \u2018Tu\u011f\u00e7e ayakta durmal\u0131s\u0131n. Anneni kaybetmi\u015f olabilirsin ama bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 bir karde\u015fin var\u2019 dedim. Annem \u00f6lmeden \u00f6nce \u2018Karde\u015fine \u00e7ok iyi bak\u2019 diye vasiyet ederdi. B\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp, olgunla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a karde\u015fime olan inanc\u0131m daha da artt\u0131. E\u011fitim hayat\u0131m boyunca okuldan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p, direk eve gelirdim. Yemek ve temizlik yap\u0131p, karde\u015fimle ilgilenirdim. Hayat\u0131m ev i\u015flerini, karde\u015fimin bak\u0131m\u0131 ve e\u011fitimim ile s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bu kadar yo\u011funluk aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr d\u00f6rt senelik \u00fcniversite mezunu oldum\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo\u011fum yapmadan anne oldum\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00c7ak\u0131r, “\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc kitab\u0131m \u2018Cennet Ku\u015fu\u2019 bizim kendi hayat hik\u00e2yemiz. En fazla geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc bu kitab\u0131mda ald\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek hayat hik\u00e2yesi her insan\u0131 etkiler. Bu kitapta karde\u015fimden, annemin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zorluklardan, hayata kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l durdu\u011fumdan, sorumluluklar\u0131mdan bahsettim. \u0130nsanlara fayda sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnece\u011fim bir kitap oldu” dedi. Karde\u015fi ile olan foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 da sosyal medyada payla\u015fan ve 10 binlerce takip\u00e7iye ula\u015fan Tu\u011f\u00e7e \u00c7ak\u0131r, “Sosyal medyada \u2018kucukanne.t\u2019 ismiyle bir hesab\u0131m var. Karde\u015fimin bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlendi\u011fim i\u00e7in \u2018k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anne\u2019 diyorlar. Do\u011fum yapmadan anne oldum. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman insanlardan gelen mesajlarda hayat\u0131m\u0131 karde\u015fime adad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in iyi dileklerde bulunuyorlar. Bu mesajlar benim i\u00e7in gurur verici. Ben karde\u015fime severek ve isteyerek bak\u0131yorum” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
BURSA’DA HEN\u00dcZ 13 YA\u015eINDAYKEN ANNES\u0130N\u0130 KAYBEDEN BU NEDENLE DE O TAR\u0130HTE 8 YA\u015eINDA OLAN SEREBRAL PALS\u0130 HASTASI KARDE\u015e\u0130NE BAKMAK ZORUNDA KALAN TU\u011e\u00c7E \u00c7AKIR (25), HEM \u00dcN\u0130VERS\u0130TE OKUDU HEM DE KARDE\u015e\u0130N\u0130N BAKIMINDAN ARTA KALAN ZAMANLARDA K\u0130TAP YAZDI. YAYINLANMI\u015e \u00dc\u00c7 K\u0130TABINDAN B\u0130R\u0130 OLAN CENNET KU\u015eU’NDA KARDE\u015e\u0130YLE OLAN HAYATINI KALEME ALAN GEN\u00c7 KIZ, “DO\u011eURMADAN ANNE OLDUM. \u00d6MR\u00dcM BOYUNCA KARDE\u015e\u0130ME BAKACA\u011eIM” DED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":155823,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[1073,5582,1166],"class_list":["post-155822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-ozel","tag-anne","tag-kucuk"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/ozel-kucuk-anne_b9f23fb.jpg?fit=1000%2C562","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-Exg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155822","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=155822"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/155822\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/155823"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=155822"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=155822"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=155822"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}