Ad\u0131yaman\u2019da, 3 engelli \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla tek ba\u015f\u0131na bakan anne Reyhan Bali, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na hem annelik hem de babal\u0131k yap\u0131yor. Eli \u00f6p\u00fclesi anne, hayat\u0131ndaki ilk \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi ise bu y\u0131l 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki engelli o\u011flundan ald\u0131.<\/p>\n
E\u015fi Zeynal Bali\u2019yi 6 y\u0131l \u00f6nce trafik kazas\u0131nda kaybeden 45 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki anne Reyhan Bali, 3 \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla beraber ya\u015fama tutunmaya \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 mutlu etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. 27 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki M\u00fcnevver, 25 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Asl\u0131 ve 18 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki H\u00fcseyin ile beraber hayata tutunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belirten eli \u00f6p\u00fclesi anne Reyhan Bali, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na adad\u0131. 6 y\u0131ld\u0131r \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na hem annelik hem de babal\u0131k yapan Reyhan Bali, hayat\u0131ndaki ilk \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi ise engeliler okuluna giden o\u011flu H\u00fcseyin\u2019den ald\u0131. \u0130lk kez Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc kutlaman\u0131n heyecan ve sevincini ya\u015fayan Reyhan Bali, bug\u00fcne kadar ne \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ne de kendisinin bayram mutlulu\u011fu ya\u015fayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da ifade etti. Anneler g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn ve bayramlar\u0131n kendileri i\u00e7in hep normal bir g\u00fcn gibi gelip ge\u00e7ti\u011fini belirten Reyhan Bali, ama y\u00fcre\u011finde o g\u00fcnlerin ac\u0131lar\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da kaydederek, “Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc gelir \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m konu\u015famaz. Gelip anne Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fcn kutlu olsun diyemez. Bayram olur, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131mla her anne gibi bayramla\u015famam. Ne gelenim olur ne de soran\u0131m olur. Evimin i\u00e7i her zaman b\u00f6yle sessizdir. Allah\u2019a \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m var yaln\u0131z de\u011filim. D\u00fc\u015fenin de asla dostu olmazm\u0131\u015f\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
G\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tutamayan anne, tek hayalinin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na kavu\u015fmas\u0131 oldu\u011funu kaydetti. Bali, \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m yeter ki iyi olsun, ben olmasam da olur. Ben onlar\u0131n anne demesine, ben onlar\u0131n benden yemekler istemesine, k\u0131yafetler istemesine heves kald\u0131m. Omuzlar\u0131mdaki y\u00fck a\u011f\u0131r ama onlar benim evlad\u0131m. Ne olursa olsun \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ediyorum ki benim evlatlar\u0131m var” \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
“\u00c7ok zor annelik yapmak”<\/p>\n
Engelli \u00e7ocuklara annelik yapman\u0131n \u00e7ok zor oldu\u011funu da vurgulayan Anne Reyhan Bali, t\u00fcm zorluklara ra\u011fmen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na hem annelik hem de babal\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 kaydetti.<\/p>\n
Evlatlar\u0131na bakabilmek i\u00e7in dilenmeyi bile g\u00f6ze ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatan Reyhan Bali, “Do\u011fu\u015ftan b\u00f6yleler. Doktorlara gidiyordum hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey yok diyorlard\u0131 do\u011fduktan sonrada b\u00f6yle oluyorlard\u0131. Buda bizim s\u0131nav\u0131m\u0131z. \u00c7ok zor hem onlar\u0131n annesiyim hem de babas\u0131y\u0131m. Onlar\u0131n hem eliyim hem aya\u011f\u0131y\u0131m, ben olmazsam \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m ne olacak bilmiyorum. Evlatlar\u0131m sa\u011f olsun yeter. Dilenirdim yine de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma bakard\u0131m. E\u015fim trafik kazas\u0131 yapt\u0131. O g\u00fcnden beri tek ba\u015f\u0131may\u0131m, kom\u015fular\u0131mda biliyor ne giden var ne gelen var, ne de soran var. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m benden \u00f6nemli” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn gelmesini istemiyor<\/p>\n
Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn gelmesini hi\u00e7 istemedi\u011fini de anlatan anne Reyhan Bali, “Sa\u011flam \u00e7ocu\u011fum yok ki beni kar\u015f\u0131las\u0131n. O\u011flum sa\u011flam olsun yine yeterdi, k\u0131zlar\u0131m sa\u011flam olsun yine yeterdi. Konu\u015fsalard\u0131 yine yeterdi. Dertlerini anlatmalar\u0131 yine yeterdi. Hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey diyemiyorlar, konu\u015fam\u0131yorlar. Onlar\u0131n y\u00fcr\u00fcmesine, konu\u015fmas\u0131na hasret kald\u0131m, giyinmelerine hasret kald\u0131m, yemelerine hasret kald\u0131m, her \u015feylerine hasret kald\u0131m\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u0130lk kez \u00e7i\u00e7ek ald\u0131<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131nda ilk defa \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi bu y\u0131lki Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019nde o\u011flundan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaydeden Bali, “\u00c7ok mutlu oldum, d\u00fcnyalar benim oldu. Hem a\u011flad\u0131m, hem de sevindim. Okulda \u00f6\u011fretmeni vermi\u015f, geldi verdi ve sar\u0131ld\u0131 bana. Bu duyguyu ilk kez ya\u015fad\u0131m, \u00e7ok mutlu oldum. Sa\u011f olsunlar, \u00f6\u011fretmenleri s\u00f6ylemi\u015f demek. \u0130lk defa b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey ya\u015fad\u0131m” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Tek iste\u011fi kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131nmas\u0131<\/p>\n
Reyhan Bali, tek iste\u011finin herkes gibi kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 birilerinin gelip kendisinin hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n sorulmas\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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