Tokat\u2019ta 2017 y\u0131l\u0131nda engelli k\u0131z\u0131 i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 fedakarl\u0131klarla y\u0131l\u0131n annesi se\u00e7ilen ve 2 ay sonra o\u011flu \u015fehit olan G\u00fclizar Akda\u011f, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc buruk ge\u00e7iriyor.<\/p>\n
Mahmutpa\u015fa Mahallesi\u2019nde e\u015fi Zekeriya Hasan Akda\u011f ve engelli k\u0131z\u0131 Sevda Akda\u011f ile ya\u015fayan 51 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki G\u00fclizar Akda\u011f, Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc buruk ge\u00e7iriyor. 24 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki serabral parsi hastas\u0131 engelli k\u0131z\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi fedakarl\u0131k dolay\u0131s\u0131yla 2017 y\u0131l\u0131nda y\u0131l\u0131n annesi se\u00e7ilen Akda\u011f\u2019\u0131n o\u011flu Jandarma Astsubay \u00dcst\u00e7avu\u015f Yakup Akda\u011f, bu \u00f6d\u00fcl\u00fc ald\u0131ktan 2 ay sonra Siirt\u2019te ter\u00f6ristlerin sald\u0131r\u0131s\u0131 sonucu \u015fehit oldu. Evindeki bir k\u00f6\u015feyi o\u011flundan kalan \u00f6d\u00fcl ve foto\u011fraflarla donatan anne Akda\u011f, kendisini engelli k\u0131z\u0131na adamaya devam etti. Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc \u015fehit o\u011flunun foto\u011fraflar\u0131yla birlikte engelli k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda ge\u00e7iren G\u00fclizar Akda\u011f, sadece do\u011furmakla anne olunmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, anneli\u011fin emek gerektiren ve emeklili\u011fi olmayan bir olgu oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. Anne Akda\u011f, \u201cAnneler G\u00fcn\u00fc benim i\u00e7in \u015fuanda h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc ge\u00e7iyor. B\u00fcy\u00fck eksi\u011fim var. Bir yandan da \u015fansl\u0131y\u0131m, iki tane \u00f6d\u00fcll\u00fc evlad\u0131m var. 2 y\u0131ld\u0131r Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc b\u00f6yle h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc ge\u00e7iriyorum o\u011flum \u015fehadete eri\u015ftikten sonra\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
“\u015eehit o\u011flum \u2019Seni T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye tan\u0131taca\u011f\u0131m\u2019 demi\u015fti”<\/p>\n
2017 y\u0131l\u0131nda Aile Haftas\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda engelli k\u0131z\u0131 i\u00e7in g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi fedakarl\u0131klardan dolay\u0131 y\u0131l\u0131n annesi se\u00e7ilen ve Tokat\u2019ta herkes taraf\u0131ndan tan\u0131nan G\u00fclizar Akda\u011f, bu \u00f6d\u00fcl sonras\u0131nda \u015fehit o\u011flunun “Ben de seni t\u00fcm T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye tan\u0131taca\u011f\u0131m” dedi\u011fini anlatt\u0131. Akda\u011f, \u201c\u00d6nceki Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019nde y\u0131l\u0131n annesi se\u00e7ilmi\u015ftim. Y\u0131l\u0131n annesi se\u00e7ilince Sevda\u2019y\u0131 abisi gelip tebrik edememi\u015fti. \u2019Anne bana g\u00f6ster Sevda\u2019y\u0131 bir g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc olarak\u2019 dedi. Sevda\u2019ya \u2018Niye \u015f\u0131mar\u0131yorsun Sevda, ben annemi t\u00fcm T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye tan\u0131taca\u011f\u0131m, sen Tokat\u2019a tan\u0131tm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n y\u0131l\u0131n annesi olarak\u2019 dedi. \u2019O\u011flum orada da m\u0131 Sevda\u2019y\u0131 k\u0131skan\u0131yorsun\u2019 dedim. Aradan 2 ay ge\u00e7meden beni T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye tan\u0131tt\u0131. H\u00fczn\u00fcm, eksikli\u011fim \u00e7ok fazla ama bir o kadar da gururum var. Gururlu bir anne olarak beni geride b\u0131rakt\u0131. Onun i\u00e7in ayakta durmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Engelli bir \u00e7ocu\u011fum oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ayakta durmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Durmak zorunday\u0131m. S\u00f6z\u00fcn bitti\u011fi yer, yapacak bir \u015fey yok. Tesellim \u00e7ok. Gurur verici bir evlat\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
“Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc gelince h\u00fcz\u00fcnleniyorum”\u2019<\/p>\n
Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc gelince h\u00fcz\u00fcnlendi\u011fini anlatan Akda\u011f, \u201cAnneler G\u00fcn\u00fc gelince h\u00fcz\u00fcnleniyorum ama bir yandan da seviniyorum, t\u00fcm T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin annesiyim. Benim yavrum beni o \u015fekilde b\u0131rakt\u0131. Yavrumun eksikli\u011fini hi\u00e7bir \u015fey dolduramaz. Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yerini alamaz. Hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7eklerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m zaman da \u00f6d\u00fcll\u00fc bir evlat sahibi olmak da b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fey\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Anneli\u011fin hi\u00e7bir zaman bitmeyecek bir olgu oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7eken G\u00fclizar Akda\u011f, gen\u00e7 annelere de tavsiyelerde bulundu. Akda\u011f, \u201cHer anne \u00f6zeldir ama herkes de anne olam\u0131yor. Bir de o var. Herkesin iyi bir \u015fekilde anne olmas\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye ederim. Sadece do\u011fum yapmakla anne olunmuyor. Emek gerektiriyor. Benim bir s\u00f6z\u00fcm var, annenin emeklili\u011fi yok. Benim evlad\u0131m en iyi yere gitti, hala emekli de\u011filim. Evlad\u0131m\u0131n arkas\u0131ndan dua etmekle me\u015fgul\u00fcm. Annelik, ben b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcm kenara \u00e7ekileyim \u015feklinde de\u011fil. Anne olunca tamam sonuna kadar annesin. \u0130yi bir anne olmalar\u0131n\u0131 istiyorum. \u00c7ocuk bir hamura benziyor, yo\u011furduk\u00e7a has\u0131l oluyor\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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