Fel\u00e7li annesine g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u00f6zen ve \u015fefkatle, t\u00fcm T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin \u2019Vefal\u0131 Gen\u00e7\u2019 diye tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 Erdem Candar\u2019\u0131n annesi Belgin Birg\u00fcl, tek ba\u015f\u0131na destek almadan y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ve c\u00fcmle kurmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Daha \u00f6nce sadece kelimeleri s\u00f6yleyebilen Birg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fcn ilk kurdu\u011fu c\u00fcmleyse, \u2018O\u011flum seni seviyorum\u2019 oldu. Annesinin konu\u015fabilmesi i\u00e7in hayat\u0131n\u0131 ona adayan Erdem Candar da, “\u00dcst\u00fcmde 60 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir insan\u0131n yorgunlu\u011fu var. Ama ger\u00e7ekten buna de\u011fdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Antalya\u2019da ya\u015fayan ve hen\u00fcz 17 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken babas\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunlar\u0131 nedeniyle e\u011fitim hayat\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakmak zorunda kalan Erdem Candar, i\u015f hayat\u0131na at\u0131larak evin ge\u00e7imini \u00fcstlendi. Babas\u0131n\u0131 2006 y\u0131l\u0131nda kalp yetmezli\u011fi ve KOAH\u2019tan dolay\u0131 kaybeden Erdem Candar, 1,5 y\u0131l \u00f6nce ise annesi Belgin Birg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fcn sol \u015fah damar\u0131nda t\u0131kanma olu\u015ftu\u011funu ve konu\u015fma yetisini kaybetti\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendi.<\/p>\n
Babas\u0131 i\u00e7in okulunu, annesi i\u00e7in i\u015fini b\u0131rakt\u0131<\/p>\n
Babas\u0131 i\u00e7in okulunu, annesi i\u00e7in ise i\u015fini b\u0131rakan vefal\u0131 gen\u00e7, bu sefer de annesinin hayata tutunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etti. Daha \u00f6nce yap\u0131lan haberler sonras\u0131 Erdem Candar\u2019\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zor s\u00fcre\u00e7, hay\u0131rseverlere ula\u015ft\u0131. Sa\u011fl\u0131k Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2019n\u0131n da devreye girmesiyle Erdem Candar\u2019\u0131n annesi i\u00e7in gerekli tedaviler yap\u0131lmaya ba\u015fland\u0131.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin y\u00fcre\u011fini s\u0131zlatt\u0131<\/p>\n
Hikayesiyle t\u00fcm T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin y\u00fcre\u011fini s\u0131zlatan Erdem Candar ve annesi Belgin Birg\u00fcl\u2019e, bir \u00e7ok \u015fehir ve yabanc\u0131 \u00fclkedeki hay\u0131rseverlerden yard\u0131m ya\u011fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. \u0130lk olarak \u0130stanbul\u2019dan bir hay\u0131rsever, Belgin Birg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fcn tedavisi i\u00e7in gereken 40 bin liral\u0131k ameliyat masraf\u0131n\u0131 tek kalemde Erdem\u2019e ula\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Ard\u0131ndan Sa\u011fl\u0131k Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 devreye girerek, anne Birg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fcn \u00f6zel bir rehabilitasyon merkezinde fizik tedavi ve konu\u015fma terapisi \u00fccretsiz olarak almas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131. Doktorlar\u0131n 4 ayda konu\u015fur dedi\u011fi Belgin Birg\u00fcl, 4 seansta konu\u015ftu, ilk s\u00f6z\u00fcyse o\u011flunun hayal etti\u011fi \u2018Erdem\u2019 s\u00f6z\u00fc oldu. Anne Birg\u00fcl bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u2018Gel, masa, git, Erdem sus, ekmek, su, yemek\u201d gibi temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 belirtecek kelimeleri de kullanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n
Destek bununla da s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 kalmad\u0131. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin bir\u00e7ok \u015fehrinden hay\u0131rseverler, ailenin evinin mobilyalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131f\u0131rdan yeniledi. Aile Sosyal ve Politikalar Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, Muratpa\u015fa Kaymakaml\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u0130l Sa\u011fl\u0131k M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yetkilileri Erdem\u2019in annesinin tedavisinin s\u00fcreklili\u011fi i\u00e7in gerekli ad\u0131mlar\u0131 att\u0131. Yetkililer Belgin Birg\u00fcl\u2019\u00fcn fizik tedavi ve konu\u015fma terapisinin devam ettirilebilmesi i\u00e7in t\u00fcm olanaklar\u0131 seferber etti. T\u00fcrk halk\u0131 manevi olarak da anne ve o\u011flunu ba\u011fr\u0131na bast\u0131. Gencinden ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131na binlerce ki\u015fi Erdem ile annesine telefon ve sosyal medya arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ula\u015ft\u0131, dualarla yan\u0131nda olduklar\u0131n\u0131n mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verdi.<\/p>\n
C\u00fcmle kurmaya ve d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p gezmeye ba\u015flad\u0131<\/p>\n
Aylarca s\u00fcren konu\u015fma terapisi, fizik ve elektroliz tedavileri zaman ilerledik\u00e7e Belgin Birg\u00fcl\u2019de \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtacak derecede geli\u015fmeler sa\u011flad\u0131. Birg\u00fcl, daha \u00f6nce destek olmadan ayakta duramazken, \u015fuanda tek ba\u015f\u0131na y\u00fcr\u00fcyebiliyor, o\u011fluyla birlikte d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p gezintiye dahi \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. 2-3 ay \u00f6ncesine kadar sadece kelimeleri s\u00f6yleyebilen Birg\u00fcl, \u015fuanda ise \u201cBen iyiyim, siz nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z? Bug\u00fcn hava g\u00fczel. O\u011flum ekmek al. Erdem, seni seviyorum o\u011flum\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler kurup kendini ifade edebiliyor ve o\u011fluna olan sevgisini g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n
\u0130lk c\u00fcmlesi “o\u011flum seni seviyorum” oldu<\/p>\n
Annesinin en iyi noktaya gelmek \u00fczere oldu\u011funu dile getiren Erdem Candar, konu\u015fma antrenmanlar\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc aktard\u0131. Candar, annesinin t\u00fcm kelimeleri art\u0131k kullanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade ederek, \u201c\u015eu anda sadece kendini ifade edebilme ve haf\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 tekrar kazand\u0131rma a\u015famas\u0131nday\u0131z. O\u011flum ekmek al, hava g\u00fczel, beraber gezelim. Beraber y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fck biz bu yollarda gibi c\u00fcmleyi art\u0131k s\u00f6ylemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u00d6nceden y\u00fcr\u00fcme aksan\u0131nda problem vard\u0131. Daha \u00f6nce v\u00fccut fonksiyonlar\u0131 yatalak bir haldeyken, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z elektroliz ve fizik tedavileri \u015fuanda aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kullanmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu. Hatta merdivenleri dahi tek ba\u015f\u0131na desteksiz \u00e7\u0131kabiliyor. Sadece sa\u011f elinde kavrama sorunu var bilek k\u0131sm\u0131ndan\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Annesinin ilk konu\u015ftu\u011fu kelimenin \u2018Erdem\u2019, c\u00fcmlesinin ise \u201cO\u011flum seni seviyorum\u201d oldu\u011funu belirten Candar, \u201cAllah senden raz\u0131 olsun demeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bazen \u00e7ok duyguland\u0131, yerlerde a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 oldu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bize bunu ilk ba\u015flarken annen hi\u00e7 konu\u015famayacak, yatalak kalacak demi\u015flerdi ve biz tamamen \u00fcmitsizlik bo\u015flu\u011funa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck. \u015eimdi \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr, her \u015feyi tersine d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmeyi ba\u015fard\u0131k\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00dcst\u00fcmde 60 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir insan\u0131n yorgunlu\u011fu var, ama buna de\u011fer\u201d<\/p>\n
Candar s\u00f6zlerine \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
\u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken annelerimiz bizimle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Demek ki hayatta ters d\u00fcz olma durumu oluyormu\u015f. \u015eimdi de o benim \u00f6\u011frencim, evlad\u0131m gibi. Bende ona bakmaktay\u0131m. Bu konuda elimden gelenin fazlas\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131ma inan\u0131yorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o Allah\u2019\u0131n bir emaneti sonu\u00e7ta. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7erisinde kad\u0131n olman\u0131n da \u00e7ok zor oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131m. Bir \u015feyi \u00f6\u011fretmenin, \u00f6zellikle hastalara b\u00f6yle bir \u015feyi kavratman\u0131n \u00e7ok zor oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131m. \u00dcstelik tek ba\u015f\u0131na bunu yapabilmenin zorlu\u011funu daha \u00e7ok iyi anlad\u0131m. \u00dcst\u00fcmde 60 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir insan\u0131n yorgunlu\u011fu var. Ama ger\u00e7ekten buna de\u011fdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Annem art\u0131k konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131, eskisi gibi yatalak de\u011fil, hayata tekrar tutundu. Onun g\u00fcler y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e benim yorgunlu\u011fum ge\u00e7iyor.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
FEL\u00c7L\u0130 ANNES\u0130NE G\u00d6STERD\u0130\u011e\u0130 \u00d6ZEN VE \u015eEFKATLE, T\u00dcM T\u00dcRK\u0130YE\u2019N\u0130N ‘VEFALI GEN\u00c7’ D\u0130YE TANIDI\u011eI ERDEM CANDAR\u2019IN ANNES\u0130 BELG\u0130N B\u0130RG\u00dcL, TEK BA\u015eINA DESTEK ALMADAN Y\u00dcR\u00dcMEYE VE C\u00dcMLE KURMAYA BA\u015eLADI. DAHA \u00d6NCE SADECE KEL\u0130MELER\u0130 S\u00d6YLEYEB\u0130LEN B\u0130RG\u00dcL\u2019\u00dcN \u0130LK KURDU\u011eU C\u00dcMLEYSE, \u2018O\u011eLUM SEN\u0130 SEV\u0130YORUM\u2019 OLDU. ANNES\u0130N\u0130N KONU\u015eAB\u0130LMES\u0130 \u0130\u00c7\u0130N HAYATINI ONA ADAYANERDEM CANDAR DA, “\u00dcST\u00dcMDE 60 YA\u015eINDAK\u0130 B\u0130R \u0130NSANIN YORGUNLU\u011eU VAR. AMA GER\u00c7EKTEN BUNA DE\u011eD\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130 D\u00dc\u015e\u00dcN\u00dcYORUM\u201d DED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":157293,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[36500,37,633,36499,2117,77,5875],"class_list":["post-157292","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-cumlesiyse","tag-ilk","tag-ismi","tag-kelimesi","tag-oglunun","tag-oldu","tag-sevgisi"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/ilk-kelimesi-oglunun-ismi-cumlesiyse-sevgisi-oldu_860e83a.jpg?fit=1000%2C666","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-EUY","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157292","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=157292"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157292\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/157293"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=157292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=157292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=157292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}