Gazeteci-Yazar ve \u00d6\u011fretim G\u00f6revlisi U\u011fur Oral, Ya\u015far \u00dcniversitesi Meslek Y\u00fcksekokulu (MYO) b\u00fcnyesinde verdi\u011fi g\u00f6rg\u00fc ve protokol kurallar\u0131 dersi ile 1960\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llarda T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de okutulan \u2018adab\u0131mua\u015feret\u2019 derslerini hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor. \u0130zmir\u2019de uzun y\u0131llar bas\u0131n sekt\u00f6r\u00fcnde \u00fcst d\u00fczey y\u00f6neticilik yapt\u0131ktan sonra deneyimlerini gen\u00e7lere aktarma karar\u0131 alan ve kariyerine akademisyenlikle devam eden U\u011fur Oral, \u201c\u0130yi bir hekim, avukat, doktor, m\u00fchendis olabilmek elbette \u00f6nemli ama hepsinden \u00f6nemlisi; iyi bir insan, g\u00fczel bir insan olabilmek. Bu da nezaketle, sayg\u0131yla, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcyle, tevazuyla, empati yapabilmekle, yani g\u00f6rg\u00fcl\u00fc bir birey olabilmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Zira b\u00fct\u00fcn unvanlar, b\u00fct\u00fcn ba\u015far\u0131lar ancak bu erdemlerin \u00fczerine in\u015fa edilmi\u015fse bir de\u011fer ve anlam kazan\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7e\u015fitli \u015fehirlerde d\u00fczenledi\u011fi konferanslarla da gen\u00e7lere adab\u0131mua\u015feretin inceliklerini anlatan Ya\u015far \u00dcniversitesi \u00d6\u011fretim G\u00f6revlisi U\u011fur Oral, \u0130zmir \u00d6zel T\u00fcrk Koleji (\u0130TK) \u00d6\u011frenci Birli\u011fi\u2019nin organize etti\u011fi \u20181. \u0130zmir Gen\u00e7lik Zirvesi, \u0130lham ve Gelecek Festivali\u2019 kapsam\u0131nda \u0130TK \u00f6\u011frencilerine g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemini anlatt\u0131. Gen\u00e7lere toplumsal hayatta g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemini ve bireysel ya\u015famda g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131na uymas\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fiye kazand\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 anlatan U\u011fur Oral, olmazsa olmaz kabul edilen baz\u0131 temel g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda da ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 verdi.<\/p>\n
Bireye \u00f6zg\u00fcven katar<\/p>\n
1960\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llarda okullarda adab\u0131mua\u015feret dersi okutuldu\u011funu ve bunun bir neslin g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenerek yeti\u015fmesinde b\u00fcy\u00fck katk\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirten Oral, her ne kadar g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sosyal ili\u015fkilerde nezaket ve zarafet unsuruna eskisi kadar \u00f6nem verilmese de, \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7lerin derslerine ve konferanslar\u0131na g\u00f6sterdikleri ilginin umut verici oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. G\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklara \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda, \u00f6nce aileleri taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011fretilmesi gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izen Oral, \u201cG\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131 hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n her alan\u0131nda ge\u00e7erli sosyal davran\u0131\u015f kurallar\u0131d\u0131r. Telefonla konu\u015furken, yemek yerken, otururken, kalkarken, \u00f6zetle att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her ad\u0131mda uymam\u0131z gereken g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n en temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131ndan biri de sayg\u0131 ve de\u011fer g\u00f6rmektir ki bu da g\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131na hassasiyet g\u00f6stermekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Nerede nas\u0131l davran\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek bireye \u00f6zg\u00fcven sa\u011flar. G\u00f6rg\u00fc kurallar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenerek hayata at\u0131lan bir gen\u00e7 hem i\u015f ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131nda hem sosyal hayatta her zaman sevilen, sayg\u0131 ve de\u011fer g\u00f6ren, tercih edilen birisi olur. Unutmayal\u0131m ki birbirlerine sayg\u0131l\u0131 bireyler birbirlerine sayg\u0131l\u0131 toplumlar\u0131 olu\u015ftururlar.\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
YA\u015eAR \u00dcN\u0130VERS\u0130TES\u0130 \u00d6\u011eRET\u0130M G\u00d6REVL\u0130S\u0130 U\u011eUR ORAL, \u0130ZM\u0130R \u00d6ZEL T\u00dcRK KOLEJ\u0130 (\u0130TK) \u00d6\u011eRENC\u0130 B\u0130RL\u0130\u011e\u0130\u2019N\u0130N ORGAN\u0130ZE ETT\u0130\u011e\u0130 \u20181. \u0130ZM\u0130R GEN\u00c7L\u0130K Z\u0130RVES\u0130, \u0130LHAM VE GELECEK FEST\u0130VAL\u0130\u2019 KAPSAMINDA \u0130TK \u00d6\u011eRENC\u0130LER\u0130NE G\u00d6RG\u00dc KURALLARININ \u00d6NEM\u0130N\u0130 ANLATTI.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":162920,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[38471,12835,125,5845,7712,73,38470],"class_list":["post-162919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-adabimuaseret","tag-almasi","tag-bir","tag-ders","tag-gereken","tag-her","tag-neslin"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/her-neslin-almasi-gereken-bir-ders-adabimuaseret_4df596d.jpg?fit=1000%2C678","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-GnJ","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=162919"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162919\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/162920"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=162919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=162919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=162919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}