Psikolo\u011fu Beg\u00fcm \u00d6zkaya, k\u00f6t\u00fc karnenin tek sorumlusunun \u00f6\u011frenciler olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtip, k\u00f6t\u00fc karne alan bir \u00f6\u011frenciye yanl\u0131\u015f yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n gelecekteki e\u011fitim hayat\u0131n\u0131 da olumsuz etkileyebilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Sivas Medicana Hastanesi hekimlerinden Psikolog Beg\u00fcm \u00d6zkaya, yakla\u015fan karne d\u00f6nemi \u00f6ncesi \u00f6\u011frenci velilerine y\u00f6nelik \u00f6nemli uyar\u0131larda bulundu. \u00d6zkaya \u00f6\u011frencilerin alm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu karnelerin sadece ders ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6stergesi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, \u201cAnne ve babalar bilmelidir ki; karne sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fun ders ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ya da ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6stergesi de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda derslere kat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131n, arkada\u015f ve \u00f6\u011fretmenleri ile olan ili\u015fkisinin, ilgi duydu\u011fu ve duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 derslerin, okula ve \u00f6\u011frenmeye y\u00f6nelik tutumunun da bir g\u00f6stergesidir. Bu anlamda, \u00e7ocuklar karne ald\u0131klar\u0131 zaman, sadece notlar\u0131n \u00fczerinde durmak \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u011fer \u00f6zelliklerini g\u00f6rmemizi engelleyebilir. Bu sebeple karnenin sadece ders ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendirilmemelidir. Ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00f6\u011frencinin notlar\u0131, okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 i\u015faret etse de, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011fu y\u00f6nler ba\u015fka alanlarda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamayaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmemektedir” dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun yan\u0131nda tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n<\/p>\n
\u00d6zkaya, velilerin ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z karnelerden dolay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frencilerin yan\u0131nda tart\u0131\u015fmamalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fine vurgu yap\u0131p, \u201c\u00d6zellikle baz\u0131 anne-babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n durumuna dair nedenleri de\u011ferlendirmek yerine birbirlerini su\u00e7lamaktad\u0131rlar. Babalar anneleri evdeki \u00f6\u011fretmen, anneler de babalar\u0131 okul m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc gibi g\u00f6rebilmektedir. \u00d6rne\u011fin; baba, anneyi \u00e7ocu\u011fa dersini \u00f6\u011fretemedi\u011fi, anne de babay\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeterince kontrol etmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in su\u00e7layabilmektedir. Bu durumda ise ilk\u00f6\u011fretim \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kendilerini daha fazla su\u00e7lu, depresif, mutsuz, \u00f6\u011frenmeye kar\u015f\u0131 isteksiz; lise d\u00f6nemindeki \u00e7ocuklardaysa daha \u00e7ok olumsuz davran\u0131\u015f tablolar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lmaktad\u0131r\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Tek sorumlu \u00f6\u011frenci de\u011fil<\/p>\n
Psikolog Beg\u00fcm \u00d6zkaya, k\u00f6t\u00fc karnenin tek sorumlusunun \u00f6\u011frenci olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade ederek, \u201cAyr\u0131ca k\u00f6t\u00fc karnenin tek sorumlusu \u00e7ocuk olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilinmelidir ve \u00e7ocukla bu sorumlulu\u011fu payla\u015fmak gerekir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hangi nedenlerden kaynaklan\u0131yor olabilir bunu bulmak ve \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in ad\u0131m at\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu nedenler; ki\u015fisel \u00f6zellikler, aileden kaynaklanan sebepler, okuldan kaynaklanan sebepler olarak s\u0131ralanabilir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Nas\u0131l yakla\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131<\/p>\n
\u00d6zkaya, yanl\u0131\u015f tepki veya yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n \u00f6\u011frencinin gelecekteki ki e\u011fitim hayat\u0131n\u0131 da etkileyece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekerek, \u201cAnne babalar\u0131n izlemesi gereken yol \u015f\u00f6yledir. Onlar\u0131 takdir ederek konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Daha sonra k\u00f6t\u00fc notlar\u0131n nedenleri ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131 ve bu durumu d\u00fczeltmek i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilece\u011fine \u00e7ocukla birlikte karar verilmelidir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun karnesini ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 bir \u00f6v\u00fcnme ya da utanma nedeni olarak kullan\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Baz\u0131 aileler \u00f6ncelikle maddi \u00f6d\u00fcle y\u00f6nelebilir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun en \u00e7ok istedi\u011fi oyuncak, bisiklet, bilgisayar oyununu almay\u0131 tercih edebilirler. \u2018Aferin\u2019 demek, tebrik etmek gibi ilk \u00f6d\u00fcl s\u00f6zel olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ondan sonra ya\u015f\u0131na uygun maddi \u00f6d\u00fcller de al\u0131nabilir. Tabii maddi de\u011feri y\u00fcksek hediyelerin \u00f6\u011frenme ve okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131na hi\u00e7bir katk\u0131 sa\u011flamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Dinlenme \u015fart<\/p>\n
\u00d6zkaya, tatilin dinlenme anlam\u0131na geldi\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izerek \u00f6\u011frencilere dinlenmeleri i\u00e7in mutlaka zaman tan\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirterek \u00f6devlerin tatil sonras\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n daha uygun olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayarak \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. \u00d6zkaya, \u201cBazen ebeveynler tatilin dinlenmek anlam\u0131na geldi\u011fini unutabiliyorlar. Onlar i\u00e7in tatil daha \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc notlar\u0131n d\u00fczeltilmesi \u00fczerine planlanan bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 haline gelebiliyor. Ancak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n karneleri k\u00f6t\u00fc olsa bile tatilin bir k\u0131sm\u0131nda dinlenmeliler. Ders tekrar\u0131 veya telafisi ya da bu tatil ara d\u00f6nem oldu\u011fundan verilmi\u015f \u00f6devler varsa tatilin bitimine yak\u0131n zamanda ba\u015flanmas\u0131 daha uygundur. Anne ve baba olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuza verece\u011finiz tepkiler \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u011fer \u00f6\u011frenmelerini de etkileyecektir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 yeni bilgiler almaktan korkutmamak, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 zorluklar\u0131 yenmeleri i\u00e7in cesaretlendirmek sadece \u00f6\u011frenim y\u0131llar\u0131ndaki ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil ya\u015fam kalitelerini de artt\u0131rmaya katk\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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