Medline Adana Hastanesi\u2019nden Uzman Klinik Psikolog Fulda Koyun, her karne d\u00f6nemi sonunda kimi ailelerde ya\u015fanan karne gerginli\u011fi izlerinin \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu silinmeyecek duygusal yaralara yol a\u00e7abildi\u011fini, bu nedenle ebeveynlerin b\u00f6yle bir durum olu\u015fmadan tedbir almalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
Uzman Klinik Psikolog Koyun, \u00e7ocu\u011fun tek ba\u015far\u0131 kriterinin notlar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlatarak k\u00f6t\u00fc karne ne ko\u015fulda gelirse gelsin ailelerin bunun alt\u0131nda yatan fakt\u00f6rleri ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p sorunu ortadan kald\u0131rmak \u00fczere harekete ge\u00e7melerini \u00f6nerdi.<\/p>\n
Akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck veya s\u0131n\u0131fta kalma riski ta\u015f\u0131yan \u00f6\u011frencileri di\u011fer \u00f6\u011frencilerden ay\u0131ran en \u00f6nemli etkenin anne-baba deste\u011fi ve ilgisinden yoksunluk oldu\u011funu ifade eden Psikolog Fulda Koyun, \u201cOkul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yar\u0131dan \u00e7o\u011funun ailenin katk\u0131s\u0131yla ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek yanl\u0131\u015f olmaz. Sevgi ortam\u0131 ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim ba\u011flar\u0131 olan ailelerde karnedeki zay\u0131f notlar, \u00e7ocu\u011fun daha iyi geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in ak\u0131lc\u0131 \u00f6nlemlerin al\u0131nmas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde uyar\u0131c\u0131 etki yapar. Bu tarz ailelerde ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n nedeni ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r ve uygun tedbirler al\u0131narak uygulamaya konulur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ebeveynlerin tak\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 tav\u0131r \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Sevginizi g\u00f6sterin<\/p>\n
Ailelerin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumunda sab\u0131rla ak\u0131lc\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler aramalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirten Koyun, \u201cBu gibi durumlarda \u00e7ocu\u011fa g\u00f6sterilen sevgi eksik edilmemeli, cesareti k\u0131r\u0131lmamal\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmemeli ve onda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yarat\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca \u00e7ocuk kesinlikle tembel ya da ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olarak nitelendirilmemelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk da e\u011fer kendini bu \u015fekilde kabul ederse ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in art\u0131k gayret sarf etmekten vazge\u00e7ecektir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ailelerinden ve sosyal \u00e7evrelerinden yeterli d\u00fczeyde destek ald\u0131klar\u0131nda streslerini y\u00f6neterek kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 sorunlarla daha kolay ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabildiklerinin g\u00f6zlemlendi\u011fini anlatan Psikolog Fulda Koyun, \u201cAra\u015ft\u0131rmalar bu \u015fekilde desteklenen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00e7evreleri ile olumlu ili\u015fkiler kurduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve bunun neticesinde kendine olan g\u00fcvenleri y\u00fckselirken karne notlar\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131rma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 da yakalad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koyuyor\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
Fulda Koyun, ailelere ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z karne getiren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile birlikte izlemeleri gereken ad\u0131mlar\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde s\u0131ralad\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u201cBa\u015far\u0131n\u0131n tek g\u00f6stergesi karne de\u011fildir. Karneye gere\u011finden fazla anlam y\u00fcklenmeyin.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 y\u00fckseltmek i\u00e7in nas\u0131l bir y\u00f6ntem izleyece\u011finize \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla birlikte karar verin.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011funuza sevgi ve \u015fefkat g\u00f6sterip problemlerini \u00e7\u00f6zmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olarak ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 telafi etme yollar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar tatil d\u00f6neminde dinlenmelidir. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011fu derslerle ilgili yo\u011fun ve yorucu olmayan bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma program\u0131 haz\u0131rlay\u0131n ancak zorla ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu yaln\u0131zca kendisi ile k\u0131yaslay\u0131n. Unutmay\u0131n, her \u00e7ocu\u011fun kapasitesi farkl\u0131d\u0131r ve her ba\u015far\u0131 kendi i\u00e7inde gizlidir.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fvik edici, ki\u015fili\u011fini onurland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yleyin.<\/p>\n
Yetenekli oldu\u011fu alanlar\u0131 ke\u015ffetmesi sa\u011flay\u0131n. Ona kendini deneyebilece\u011fi yeni alanlar ve se\u00e7enekler yarat\u0131n.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n
Tatiller aile i\u00e7i ili\u015fkileri yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131rma ve birlikte ge\u00e7irilen zaman\u0131 art\u0131rma f\u0131rsat\u0131d\u0131r. Bu nedenle ailece yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z etkinlikler d\u00fczenleyerek ili\u015fkilerinizi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirin.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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