Ey\u00fcpsultan Belediyesi Engelliler S\u00fcrekli E\u011fitim ve Rehberlik Merkezi (ESER)\u2019nde e\u011fitim g\u00f6ren otizmli 19 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Emrecan Kara\u2019n\u0131n annesi Deniz Kara,\u201d Engelli \u00e7ocuk sahibi ailelere de tavsiyem hi\u00e7 bir zaman \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 gizlemesinler saklamas\u0131nlar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131nlar, sosyal hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde olsunlar. Aileler engelli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 topluma kazand\u0131rs\u0131nlar, saklamas\u0131nlar\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
2015 y\u0131l\u0131ndan beri Ey\u00fcpsultan Piyer Loti\u2019de e\u011fitimler veren Ey\u00fcpsultan Belediyesi Engelliler S\u00fcrekli E\u011fitim ve Rehberlik Merkezi (ESER)\u2019nde hayat\u0131n\u0131 engelli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f ailelerin ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131na, ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelelerine ve onlar\u0131n zorluklarla dolu hayat hikayelerine her daim tan\u0131k olabilirsiniz. ESER\u2019lerde e\u011fitim g\u00f6renlerden biri de 19 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Emrecan Kara ve hayat\u0131n\u0131 ona adam\u0131\u015f \u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7ocuk annesi Demet Kara. Emrecan, 12 ve 14 ya\u015flar\u0131nda iki \u00e7ocu\u011fu bulunan Demet Kara\u2019n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flu.<\/p>\n
O\u011fluna 2.5 ya\u015f\u0131nda otizm te\u015fhisi kondu\u011funda her engelli annesi gibi ba\u015fta bu durumu kabullenmekte zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u201dNiye ben, neden benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum\u201d diye defalarca ayn\u0131 sorular\u0131 kendisine sordu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen anne Kara \u201cGer\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylemek gerekirse ilk te\u015fhis kondu\u011fu zaman \u00e7ok zordu, kabullenemedim ama asl\u0131nda bu kesinlikle yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00c7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr o zor g\u00fcnleri atlatt\u0131k. Art\u0131k Emrecan\u2019\u0131n bize Allah\u2019\u0131n bir l\u00fctfu oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cO a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ben de \u00e7ocuk gibi a\u011flad\u0131m\u201d<\/p>\n
Emre\u2019ye 2,5 ya\u015f\u0131nda otizm te\u015fhisi kondu\u011fu o g\u00fcnden bu g\u00fcne, hayat\u0131n\u0131n hep m\u00fccadele i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7ti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen anne Demet Kara, \u201cEmre\u2019de 2,5 ya\u015f\u0131nda anormal bir durum oldu\u011funu farkettik ve doktora g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fck. Erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ge\u00e7 konu\u015fur diye bize alt\u0131 ay s\u00fcre verdiler ama bu s\u00fcre bizi \u00e7ok geriye att\u0131. \u00d6nce kulak burun bo\u011faza g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fck acaba duymuyor mu diye, fakat duymas\u0131nda bir sorun yoktu. Sonra \u00e7ocuk psikolo\u011funa g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fck, burada bir \u00e7ok testlerden ge\u00e7ti. Bir \u00e7ok hastaneye g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fck. Tam te\u015fhis ise 3,5 ya\u015f\u0131nda kondu. Emrecan\u2019la birlikte iki sene depresyona girdim. Tak\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131, a\u011flama krizleri vard\u0131. O a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ben de \u00e7ocuk gibi a\u011flad\u0131m. \u00c7ok zor g\u00fcnler ya\u015fad\u0131k ama \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr o g\u00fcnleri atlatt\u0131k. \u0130n\u015fallah ileride daha da iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u201cEn b\u00fcy\u00fck destek\u00e7im e\u015fim oldu\u201d<\/p>\n
Bu zor g\u00fcnlerinde en b\u00fcy\u00fck deste\u011fin e\u015finden ve ailesinden geldi\u011fini, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n da kendisine \u00e7ok yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirten Kara , \u201cE\u015fim, Emrecan\u2019\u0131n durumunu benden \u00e7abuk kabullendi. Otizm te\u015fhisi kondu\u011funda bu bize Allah\u2019\u0131n bir l\u00fctfu dedi ve onun i\u00e7in her \u015fey bitti. \u00c7ok s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamanlarda i\u015fte bile olsa yan\u0131ma gelip Emrecan\u2019\u0131 bir iki saat dola\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p tekrar i\u015fe gitti. Keza annem ve babam da \u00e7ok destek\u00e7i oldu. Annem rahmetli oldu, ama babam hala Emrecan\u2019\u0131 al\u0131r gezdirip, dola\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bu i\u015fler m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil desteksiz olmaz. Tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za b\u00f6yle bir durumun \u00fcstesinden gelemezsiniz, yap\u0131yorum diyen bence yalan s\u00f6yler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011fun durumunu anlayana kadar belli bir s\u00fcre\u00e7ten ge\u00e7iyorsunuz. Bu duruma siz al\u0131\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz, etraf\u0131n\u0131zdan s\u00fcrekli bir \u015feyler s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar. \u00c7ocu\u011fa m\u0131 bakacaks\u0131n\u0131z, kendini mi al\u0131\u015ft\u0131racaks\u0131n, etrafa m\u0131 cevap vereceksiniz. O y\u00fczden desteksiz imkans\u0131z\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u201cAileler engelli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 topluma kazand\u0131rs\u0131nlar, saklamas\u0131nlar\u201d<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorlu s\u00fcre\u00e7te kendisini en \u00e7ok yoran konulardan birisinin de \u00e7evresinden gelen olumsuz tepkiler oldu\u011funu dile getiren Demet Kara, \u201cAlayc\u0131 ifadeler bak\u0131\u015flar beni \u00e7ok rahats\u0131z etti. Otizm diyorsunuz anlam\u0131yorlar. Ba\u015f\u0131na gelmeyince bunu anlamak \u00e7ok zor. Ben Emrecan\u2019dan hi\u00e7bir zaman utanmad\u0131m. Hepimiz birer engelli aday\u0131y\u0131z. Yar\u0131n \u00f6b\u00fcr g\u00fcn ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za neler gelece\u011fini kimse bilemez. \u0130nsanlar \u00f6zel \u00e7ocuklarla dalga ge\u00e7mesinler, onlar\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131nlar ve ona g\u00f6re davrans\u0131nlar. Engelli \u00e7ocuk sahibi ailelere de tavsiyem hi\u00e7 bir zaman \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 gizlemesinler saklamas\u0131nlar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131nlar, sosyal hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde olsunlar. Ben Ey\u00fcpsultan Ni\u015fanca Mahallesi\u2019nde oturuyorum. Benim \u00e7ocu\u011fumu herkes tan\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fu eve kapatmak \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm de\u011fil. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131nlar gezdirsinler, asla utanmas\u0131nlar. \u00d6zel e\u011fitime \u00f6nem versinler. Topluma kazand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in ellerinden geleni yaps\u0131nlar\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fumu ESER\u2019e g\u00f6z\u00fc kapal\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131yorum\u201d<\/p>\n
ESER\u2019le d\u00f6rt y\u0131l \u00f6nce tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kendisinin ve Emrecan\u2019\u0131n kurumu \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fini ifade eden Deniz Kara, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor: \u201c\u00d6zel \u00e7ocu\u011funuz oldu\u011fu zaman her yere g\u00fcvenemiyorsunuz. ESER\u2019e d\u00f6rt y\u0131l \u00f6nce gelip bakt\u0131m. M\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcnden \u00f6\u011fretmenine, a\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan kap\u0131daki g\u00fcvenlik eleman\u0131na kadar herkese g\u00f6zleriniz kapal\u0131 g\u00fcveniyorsunuz. Ba\u015fkan Deniz K\u00f6ken\u2019den ricam \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n buraya haftan\u0131n be\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fc gelmesi. \u015eu an sadece \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcn gelebiliyorlar. Sak\u0131n bu iste\u011fim yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n. Benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum bana y\u00fck de\u011fil. Ama Emrecan burada arkada\u015flar\u0131yla, \u00f6\u011fretmenleriyle vakit ge\u00e7irmeyi \u00e7ok seviyor. \u00c7ar\u015famba g\u00fcnleri ESER\u2019e gidece\u011fim diye sabah\u0131n alt\u0131s\u0131nda kalk\u0131p haz\u0131rlan\u0131yor. Yazl\u0131\u011fa gitti\u011fimizde bile evde durmak istemiyor. Kuruma o kadar \u00e7ok al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ki s\u00fcrekli gelmek istiyor. \u00c7ocuklar d\u00f6rt saat burada kal\u0131yorlar; ama o d\u00f6rt saat anneye de \u00e7ocu\u011fa da o kadar iyi geliyor ki. Bu tip kurumlar\u0131n her yerde olmas\u0131 gerek. Allah Ey\u00fcpsultan Belediyesi\u2019nden raz\u0131 olsun.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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