Anaokulu, ilkokul 1, 5 ve 9. s\u0131n\u0131f \u00f6\u011frencilerine y\u00f6nelik haz\u0131rlanan okula uyum program\u0131yla \u00f6\u011frencilerin \u201c\u00f6\u011frenmeye uyum\u201d s\u00fcrecinin t\u00fcm e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131na yay\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n ama\u00e7land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden Do\u011fa Koleji Rehberlik Koordinat\u00f6r\u00fc Sibel \u0130zgiman, okulu reddeden \u00e7ocu\u011fun su\u00e7lanmamas\u0131, ay\u0131planmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirterek, bu s\u00fcrecin daha rahat atlat\u0131lmas\u0131 ad\u0131na ebeveynlere \u00f6nemli uyar\u0131larda bulundu.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye genelindeki anaokulu, ilkokul 1, 5 ve 9. s\u0131n\u0131f \u00f6\u011frencileri i\u00e7in uygulamaya konulan \u201cOkula Uyum Program\u0131\u201d bu y\u0131l 5-6 Eyl\u00fcl olarak belirlendi. \u00d6\u011frenciler, uyum program\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda ders i\u00e7erikleri hakk\u0131nda bilgi edinerek, oyun yoluyla deneyim kazand\u0131. Okul \u00f6ncesi oryantasyon program\u0131, \u00f6\u011frencileri; yeni d\u00f6neme daha uyumlu bir \u015fekilde ba\u015flamalar\u0131 i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlad\u0131. Ancak baz\u0131 \u00f6\u011frencilerin, okula al\u0131\u015fmak ve uyum sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in biraz daha zamana ihtiya\u00e7 duyabilece\u011fini kaydeden Do\u011fa Koleji Rehberlik Koordinat\u00f6r\u00fc Sibel \u0130zgiman, \u201c\u00c7ocuk, \u00f6ncelikle \u00f6\u011fretmenine ve okuldaki di\u011fer yeti\u015fkinlere g\u00fcven duymal\u0131. Bu g\u00fcvenin olu\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in de \u00e7ocu\u011fun okulda daha \u00e7ok zaman ge\u00e7irmesi gerekiyor\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u201cVedala\u015fmalar\u0131 k\u0131sa tutun\u201d<\/p>\n
Sibel \u0130zgiman, \u00e7ocu\u011fun okulun ilk g\u00fcnlerinde kayg\u0131 ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131n son derece normal bir davran\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyerek, \u201cYeti\u015fkinler i\u00e7in dahi; yeni bir eve ta\u015f\u0131nmak, i\u015f de\u011fi\u015ftirmek, yeni bir i\u015f ortam\u0131na al\u0131\u015fmak ya da d\u00fczen kurmak biraz stresli ve zaman al\u0131c\u0131 olabiliyor. A\u011flayan, okulu reddeden bir \u00e7ocuk ay\u0131planmamal\u0131, ele\u015ftirilmemeli, su\u00e7lanmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ebeveynlerinden ayr\u0131lmak istemeyen \u00e7ocuk vedala\u015fmalar\u0131 uzatmak isteyebilir, ancak vedala\u015fmalar k\u0131sa tutulmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cOkula kademeli olarak al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n\u201d<\/p>\n
\u0130zgiman, \u00f6\u011frencinin; ailesinin s\u0131n\u0131fta yan\u0131nda olmas\u0131n\u0131 talep etmesi durumunda izlenecek ad\u0131mlar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131: \u201cOkul ortam\u0131nda anne-baban\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun okula al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131, okulda bir birey olarak di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar gibi hareket etmesini; dolay\u0131s\u0131yla okul uyumunu g\u00fc\u00e7le\u015ftirir. Aileler, okulu reddeden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n okulda yan\u0131nda bulunmak yerine; onlar\u0131 kademeli olarak okula al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilir. \u0130lk g\u00fcn yar\u0131m g\u00fcn, sonra biraz daha uzun, sonra tam g\u00fcn gibi.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cTutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 olun\u201d<\/p>\n
A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kayg\u0131 duyan \u00e7ocuklarda somatik belirtiler g\u00f6r\u00fclebilece\u011fini ifade eden \u0130zgiman, \u201cKayg\u0131 ya\u015fayan pek \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuk \u2019karn\u0131m a\u011fr\u0131yor, midem bulan\u0131yor\u2019 gibi \u015fikayetlerle okula gitmek istemez ya da a\u011flayarak diren\u00e7 g\u00f6sterebilir. Hatta bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u2019Bug\u00fcn okula gitmeyeyim, yar\u0131n giderim\u2019 gibi s\u00f6zlerle ebeveynlerini ikna etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirler. Ailelerin tutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 davranmas\u0131 \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. \u2019A\u011flama, \u00fcz\u00fclme\u2019 demek yerine duygular\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak \u2019\u015fu an endi\u015fe duyuyorsun ama ge\u00e7ecek\u2019 diyerek destek olmak daha do\u011fru olacakt\u0131r\u201d diye ifade etti.<\/p>\n
\u201cHeyecan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yans\u0131tmay\u0131n\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ilk defa okula g\u00f6nderen anne-babalar i\u00e7in de ayn\u0131 heyecan s\u00f6z konusu olabilece\u011fi i\u00e7in, Rehberlik Koordinat\u00f6r\u00fc \u0130zgiman, velilerin kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131tmamas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n
\u0130zgiman, \u00e7ocu\u011fu okula ba\u015flayacak olan ebeveynlere, \u201cAcaba okula kolay al\u0131\u015facak m\u0131? Okulunu sevecek mi? Okulda ya yemek yemezse? Temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131layabilecek mi gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere kap\u0131lmay\u0131n. Unutmay\u0131n ki kendi ebeveynlerini kayg\u0131l\u0131 g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuk, okula kar\u015f\u0131 bir tedirginlik ya\u015fayacakt\u0131r\u201d diye uyar\u0131larda bulundu.<\/p>\n
\u00d6zellikle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f gruplar\u0131nda, baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n annelerinden ya da bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenen ki\u015filerden ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131n\u0131n daha zor olabildi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen \u0130zgiman, \u201cKendini g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fi ve al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 mutlu ev ortam\u0131ndan ayr\u0131larak daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 insanlarla bilmedi\u011fi bir ortamda g\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6nemli bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc ge\u00e7irmek \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in endi\u015fe verici olabilir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu cesaretlendirin\u201d<\/p>\n
\u0130zgiman, \u201cOkula ve \u00f6\u011frenmeye haz\u0131r olmak demek; okulu, dersleri, \u00f6\u011fretmen ve arkada\u015flar\u0131 sevmek demektir. Aileler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmenlerine soru sorma ve yard\u0131m isteme konusunda cesaretlendirmelidir. \u00d6\u011fretmeninden destek isteyebilen, arkada\u015f\u0131na soru sorabilen \u00e7ocuk okulda daha aktif olaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, \u00f6\u011frenme de keyifli hale gelecektir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Uyum program\u0131nda \u00f6\u011frenciyi neler bekliyor?<\/p>\n
\u00d6\u011frencilerin okulu tan\u0131mas\u0131 ve okula al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan oryantasyon programlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7eken \u0130zgiman, s\u00f6zlerini \u201c\u00d6\u011frencilerimiz; yemekhanenin, lavabonun, k\u00fct\u00fcphanenin, revirin, bah\u00e7e ve oyun alanlar\u0131n\u0131n yerini \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi i\u00e7in; okul i\u00e7inde nas\u0131l hareket edeceklerini de \u00f6\u011freniyorlar. Okulun fiziksel yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131rken, s\u0131n\u0131f arkada\u015flar\u0131 ve \u00f6\u011fretmenleriyle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p onlarla ileti\u015fim kurmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yorlar\u201d \u015feklinde s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n birka\u00e7 hafta i\u00e7inde okula tam anlam\u0131yla al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n beklendi\u011fini ifade eden \u0130zgiman, \u201cE\u011fer devam eden bir kayg\u0131 varsa uzman deste\u011fi almak fayda sa\u011flayabilir. Uyum problemleri ciddiye al\u0131nmal\u0131, okul ve aile i\u015f birli\u011fi i\u00e7inde \u00f6\u011frenciye destek olunmal\u0131 ve okul oryantasyonu sa\u011flanmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d diyerek s\u00f6zlerini noktalad\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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