{"id":214704,"date":"2019-10-13T10:01:57","date_gmt":"2019-10-13T07:01:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/uzmanlardan-ebeveynlere-uyari-cocugunuza-depremi-anlatin\/"},"modified":"2019-10-13T10:01:57","modified_gmt":"2019-10-13T07:01:57","slug":"uzmanlardan-ebeveynlere-uyari-cocugunuza-depremi-anlatin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/uzmanlardan-ebeveynlere-uyari-cocugunuza-depremi-anlatin\/","title":{"rendered":"Uzmanlardan ebeveynlere uyar\u0131: &#8220;\u00c7ocu\u011funuza depremi anlat\u0131n&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Akdeniz \u00dcniversitesi (A\u00dc) T\u0131p Fak\u00fcltesi \u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Psikiyatri Anabilim Dal\u0131 \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Serhat Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, deprem sonras\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda ruhsal problemler ya\u015fanabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekerek, &#8220;\u00c7ocu\u011fa, \u2018Ben senin yan\u0131nday\u0131m, ne ya\u015fayacaksak birlikte ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z, biz bu s\u00fcreci kendimizi koruyarak atlataca\u011f\u0131z\u2019 demek gerekiyor. \u00c7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131n\u0131 tehdit eden ve ruhsal problemi ya\u015fatacak konularda yalan s\u00f6ylenmemesi gerekir&#8221; dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, deprem sonras\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda olu\u015fabilecek ruhsal problemlere dikkat \u00e7ekerek, konuyla ilgili ebeveynlere bilgilendirmelerde ve uyar\u0131larda bulundu.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKorkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla payla\u015f\u0131n\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ailelerin ya\u015fan\u0131lan ac\u0131lar\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla payla\u015fmak istemedi\u011fini ifade eden Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, \u201c\u00d6l\u00fcmler oluyor, yaslar oluyor. Hatta \u00e7ocu\u011fa kendi babas\u0131n\u0131n ve annesini \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc bile s\u00f6ylemeye \u00e7ekiniyoruz. \u2018Biraz daha zaman ge\u00e7sin, \u00e7ocuk biraz b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fcn\u2019 diye bekliyoruz. Korkular\u0131n\u0131z varsa \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zla bunu konu\u015fun. \u2018Ben de korkuyorum\u2019 deyin. Annenin a\u011flamas\u0131 m\u0131 gerekiyor? A\u011flas\u0131n. Hatta \u00e7ocukla beraber a\u011flas\u0131n. Ama bizde tam tersi s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u015fliyor\u201d ifadelerine yer verdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnne ve baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu desteklemesi gerekiyor\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Var olan korkunun ve ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin \u00e7ocuklardan sakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izen Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, \u00e7ocu\u011fun yine de bu bilgiyi d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve belirsizlik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine kap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, korkular\u0131n\u0131n daha da artmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaydetti.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Psikiyatri Anabilim Dal\u0131 \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Serhat Nas\u0131ro\u011flu \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc korkular \u00e7ocukla payla\u015f\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, gelecek \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fc azalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve \u00e7ocuk bir \u015fekilde korkuyu zihninde artt\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7ocukla konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman, \u00e7ocuk da korkular\u0131n\u0131 sizinle payla\u015fmayabilir. \u2018\u00c7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey oldu annem de benimle konu\u015fmuyor. Ben kendi korkular\u0131m\u0131 anneme anlat\u0131rsam o da bundan korkabilir, \u00fcz\u00fclebilir\u2019 diyebilir. Ergen bir \u00e7ocuksa t\u00fcm g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcl\u00fck y\u0131k\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in yine payla\u015fmak istemez. Anne ve baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu desteklemesi gerekiyor. Depremle ilgisi kayg\u0131s\u0131, korkusu mu var bunu payla\u015fmal\u0131. Depremin ni\u00e7in oldu\u011fu fiziksel olarak anlat\u0131lmal\u0131. Gerek \u00f6\u011fretmeni, gerekse kendisi anlatmal\u0131. Okullarda bu konuyla ilgili e\u011fitim verilmeli. Neden depremin olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilirsek, anlarsak ve nelerin \u00f6nlem olarak konulabilece\u011fini konu\u015fabilirsek haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 oluruz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7eklerin ve korkular\u0131n her ya\u015f grubundaki \u00e7ocukta sorun \u00e7\u0131kartabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, bebeklerde bile depresyon sorununun g\u00f6r\u00fclebildi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cArt\u0131k hayat onun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok tehlikeli\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, \u201cBiz yeni do\u011fdu\u011fumuz zaman anne ve babam\u0131zla g\u00fcvenli bir ba\u011f\u0131m\u0131z varsa, \u2018babam, annem beni koruyacak. K\u00f6t\u00fc \u015feyler ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na geliyor\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz. Bunlar bizim temel k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fck ya\u015f d\u00f6nemimizde yer al\u0131yor. Zihnin arkas\u0131nda bu fikirler var. Deprem gibi hi\u00e7 hesapta olmayan, bilmedi\u011fimiz b\u00fcy\u00fck bir olay bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye etki ediyor. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f d\u00f6neminde \u00e7ocuk k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman temel inan\u00e7lar\u0131 sars\u0131l\u0131yor. \u2018Hayat \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fclebilirdi, babam, annem koruyacakt\u0131\u2019 bu sistem art\u0131k da\u011f\u0131l\u0131yor. Art\u0131k hayat onun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok tehlikeli. Belirsizlik k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f d\u00f6neminde depresyona sokabilecek belirtileri tetikleyebilir\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yeme\u011fimi yemedim deprem oldu diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ruhsal s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocukta olu\u015fturdu\u011fu problemlere de\u011finen Serhat Nas\u0131ro\u011flu, \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f grubundaki \u00e7ocuk tuvalet e\u011fitimini b\u0131rakt\u0131ysa, tekrardan tuvalet e\u011fitimi sorunu \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flar. Kendi ya\u015f d\u00f6nemine g\u00f6re daha alt ya\u015f grubuna g\u00f6re konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7ocuk 4 ya\u015f\u0131ndaysa, daha bebeksi konu\u015fma i\u00e7erisine girer. Kekemelik ve tikler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir. Kabuslar vard\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk oyun oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman travmalarla ilgili oyunlarla daha \u00e7ok oynayabilir. Okul ya\u015f d\u00f6neminde ise okuldan ka\u00e7ma olabilir, fobileri olabilir. Madde kullan\u0131m\u0131 konusunda ya\u015fan\u0131r, \u00f6fke n\u00f6betleri, i\u015ftah sorunu \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00c7ocukta davran\u0131\u015f sorunlar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabiliriz. \u00d6zellikle ergenlik d\u00f6nemi daha dikkatli olmam\u0131z gereken bir d\u00f6nem. Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde bahsetti\u011fimiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131yla birlikte evden ka\u00e7ma, ebeveyne \u00f6fkenin artmas\u0131, intihar giri\u015fimleri ya\u015fan\u0131r. Depremden dolay\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm g\u00f6rd\u00fcyse, hayatta kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kendisini su\u00e7lar. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015ftaki \u00e7ocuklar ise hayati olay\u0131n kendili\u011finden oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocuk bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nce yemek yemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in annesinin \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrse, bir g\u00fcn sonra deprem oldu\u011funda, \u2018ben yemek yemedim annem \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc ve deprem oldu\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Asla yalan s\u00f6ylenmemeli&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131ro\u011flu s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle noktalad\u0131: \u201c\u00c7ocuklara olan neyse, depremin ne oldu\u011funu ve nas\u0131l \u00f6nlem al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemek laz\u0131m. \u00c7ocu\u011fa, \u2018Ben senin yan\u0131nday\u0131m, ne ya\u015fayacaksak birlikte ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z. Biz bu s\u00fcreci kendimizi koruyarak atlataca\u011f\u0131z\u2019 demek gerekiyor. Asla yalan s\u00f6ylemeyece\u011fiz. \u00c7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131n\u0131 tehdit eden ve ruhsal problem ya\u015fatacak konularda yalan s\u00f6ylenmemesi laz\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>AKDEN\u0130Z \u00dcN\u0130VERS\u0130TES\u0130 (A\u00dc) TIP FAK\u00dcLTES\u0130 \u00c7OCUK VE ERGEN PS\u0130K\u0130YATR\u0130 ANAB\u0130L\u0130M DALI \u00d6\u011eR. \u00dcYES\u0130 SERHAT NASIRO\u011eLU, &#8220;\u00c7OCU\u011eA, \u2018BEN SEN\u0130N YANINDAYIM, NE YA\u015eAYACAKSAK B\u0130RL\u0130KTE YA\u015eAYACA\u011eIZ, B\u0130Z BU S\u00dcREC\u0130 KEND\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130 KORUYARAK ATLATACA\u011eIZ\u2019 DEMEK GEREK\u0130YOR. \u00c7OCU\u011eUN HAYATINI TEHD\u0130T EDEN VE RUHSAL PROBLEM\u0130 YA\u015eATACAK KONULARDA YALAN S\u00d6YLENMEMES\u0130 GEREK\u0130R.&#8221;DED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":214705,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[54271,54272,1289,8951,4084,17751],"class_list":["post-214704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-cocugunuza","tag-anlatin","tag-depremi","tag-ebeveynlere","tag-uyari","tag-uzmanlardan"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/uzmanlardan-ebeveynlere-uyari-cocugunuza-depremi-anlatin_45a52bc.jpg?fit=1000%2C752","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-TQY","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=214704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214704\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/214705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=214704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=214704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=214704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}