Babas\u0131 \u015fehit oldu\u011funda 7 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken b\u00fcy\u00fck bir travma ya\u015fayan Bat\u0131n Bezik (22), \u015fehit yak\u0131nlar\u0131na ve gazilere \u00fccretsiz terapi vermek amac\u0131yla psikolog olma hayalini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi. \u015eehit ailelerine terapi uygulayan Bezik, “Bu hayalimi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutlu ve gururluyum” diyerek g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131na bo\u011fuldu.<\/p>\n
Van\u2019\u0131n G\u00fcrp\u0131nar il\u00e7esine ba\u011fl\u0131 Yal\u0131nca mevkisinde 28 Haziran 2004 tarihinde b\u00f6l\u00fcc\u00fc ter\u00f6r \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc PKK taraf\u0131ndan kurulan may\u0131nl\u0131 pusunun ard\u0131ndan a\u00e7\u0131lan \u00e7apraz ate\u015f sonucu \u015fehit olan K\u0131demli Uzman \u00c7avu\u015f Ali Bezik (34) geride g\u00f6z\u00fc ya\u015fl\u0131 e\u015fi Nilg\u00fcn Bezik ve 14 ayl\u0131k o\u011flu Berker Bezik ve 7 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131. Vatan u\u011fruna e\u015fini kaybeden Nilg\u00fcn Bezik ve babalar\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden iki \u00e7ocuk o g\u00fcnlerde \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r travmalar atlatt\u0131. \u00c7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck zorluklar \u00e7eken \u00e7ocuklardan Bat\u0131n Bezik ise o \u00e7ekti\u011fi ac\u0131lardan dolay\u0131 kendisi gibi babas\u0131 \u015fehit olan \u00e7ocuklara ve di\u011fer yak\u0131nlar\u0131na destek olmak i\u00e7in psikolog olma hayali kurdu. O g\u00fcnden sonra Bat\u0131n Bezik derslerine \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak \u0130stanbul \u00dcniversitesi Edebiyat Fak\u00fcltesi Psikoloji B\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc kazand\u0131. Bat\u0131n Bezik bu y\u0131l da mezun olarak g\u00f6reve ba\u015flad\u0131. Bezik g\u00f6reve ba\u015flar ba\u015flamaz T\u00fcrkiye Harp Malul\u00fc Gaziler \u015eehit Dul ve Yetimleri Derne\u011finde \u015fehit yak\u0131nlar\u0131 ve gazilere \u00fccretsiz terapi ba\u015flatt\u0131. Bezik, \u015fehit yak\u0131nlar\u0131 ve gazilere ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 travmalar\u0131 atlatmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in neler yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini tek tek anlatt\u0131. Bat\u0131n, babas\u0131n\u0131n de foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131n bulundu\u011fu \u015fehitlik an\u0131t\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde terapi yap\u0131nca duygusal anlarda ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n
“Karde\u015fim babam\u0131 hi\u00e7 hat\u0131rlam\u0131yor”<\/p>\n
Bat\u0131n Bezik, “Benim hayalimdi psikolog olmak \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her \u015feyden \u00f6nce \u015fehit ve gazi ailelerimize yard\u0131m etmeyi \u00e7ok istiyordum. Babam \u015fehit oldu\u011funda ben ve karde\u015fim daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckt\u00fck \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck zorluklar atlatt\u0131k ger\u00e7ekten. Anneme bu iste\u011fimden bahsettim psikolog olmak istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim ve ileride onlara bir faydam olsun dedim. En b\u00fcy\u00fck destek\u00e7im annem oldu ve hep arkamda durdu \u015fuan buradaysam en b\u00fcy\u00fck deste\u011fim annem oldu. Benim ailelerden bir beklentim olmad\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar\u0131n iyi olmas\u0131 y\u00fczlerindeki g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme ve buradan mutlu bir \u015fekilde ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istedim her zaman. Bu hayalimi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutlu ve gururluyum” dedi.<\/p>\n
Okulu bitirdikten sonra \u00f6nce babas\u0131n\u0131n mezar\u0131na gitti\u011fine de\u011finen Bezik, “Gururluyum ve ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m en b\u00fcy\u00fck tepki baban\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterdin oldu. Evet, onun k\u0131z\u0131y\u0131m hen\u00fcz belki can\u0131m\u0131 vermedim ama gerekti\u011finde onu da veririm. Hayattayken elimden ne geliyorsa yapaca\u011f\u0131m” diyerek g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131na bo\u011fuldu.<\/p>\n
“Kendisiyle \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck gurur duyduk”<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkiye Harp Malul\u00fc Gaziler \u015eehit Dul ve Yetimleri Derne\u011fi Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Gazi Mehmet Ali Bak\u0131r ise, “K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131zla onur ve gurur duyuyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00f6yle bir hayalinin olmas\u0131 ve gelip burada bizlere bu hizmeti vermesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. \u015eehit aileleri ve gaziler olarak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olaylardan dolay\u0131 psikolojik tedavi g\u00f6rmemiz gerekiyor. Biz dernek olarak \u015fehit k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bu uygulamay\u0131 ba\u015flatmam\u0131z g\u00fczel bir avantaj oldu. Kendisi, ailelerimize ve ihtiya\u00e7 sahiplerine terapi uygulayarak gelecek y\u0131llarda \u00f6nlerini a\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Kendisiyle \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck gurur duyduk ayr\u0131ca bize verdi\u011fi bu hizmetten dolay\u0131 \u00e7ok te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyoruz” diye konu\u015ftu<\/p>\n
O\u011flunu 2018 y\u0131l\u0131nda Hakkari de \u015fehit veren baba Halil \u0130brahim \u015e\u0131k ise, “K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n okuyup psikolog olmas\u0131 \u00e7ok gurur vericidir. Ke\u015fke b\u00fct\u00fcn \u015fehit ailelerinin evlatlar\u0131 iyi yerlere gelseler. Bizim psikolojik sorunlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 dinleyip yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor \u00e7ok mutluyuz ne diyece\u011fimi bilemiyorum. Psikolog k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u015fehit \u00e7ocu\u011fu oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenince tarifi anlat\u0131lamayacak kadar mutlu oldum” dedi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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