Milyonlarca \u00f6\u011frenci karne heyecan\u0131 ya\u015farken, Uzman Klinik Psikolog Ba\u015fak Mutlu, k\u0131r\u0131k notlar sebebiyle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendini yetersiz hissetmesinin bedelinin a\u011f\u0131r olabilece\u011fi ikaz\u0131nda bulundu.<\/p>\n
2019-2020 e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131nda s\u00f6mestr tatili ba\u015flad\u0131. Yakla\u015f\u0131k 18 milyon \u00f6\u011frencinin karne alarak ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6mestr d\u00f6neminin iyi de\u011ferlendirilmesi gerekti\u011fini ifade eden VM Medical Park Bursa Hastanesi\u2019nden Uzman Klinik Psikolog Ba\u015fak Mutlu, karnelerle ilgili ailelerinin yorumlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 fazlas\u0131yla etkiledi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi. Mutlu, \u201cG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz ebeveynlerinin \u00e7o\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck not alan \u00e7ocuklara cezaland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131, su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n ilerleyen d\u00f6nemde ders notlar\u0131na katk\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bu tip tutumlar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n psikolojisini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkiledi\u011fini biliyor. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l yakla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi konusunda ailelerin zaman zaman kafas\u0131 kar\u0131\u015fabiliyor. \u00d6ncelikle ba\u015far\u0131 kavram\u0131n\u0131n geni\u015f bir tarifi oldu\u011funu ve yaln\u0131zca ders ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131ndan olu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak gerekir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ders d\u0131\u015f\u0131 olumlu davran\u0131\u015f ve kabiliyetleri, gelecekteki mutlulu\u011fu \u00fczerinde ders ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 kadar \u00f6nemlidir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00e7ocuktan y\u00fcksek notlar almaya odaklan\u0131p hayat\u0131n di\u011fer alanlar\u0131ndan kendisini \u00e7ekmesini beklemek uygun bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cG\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yanlar\u0131na odaklan\u0131n\u201d<\/p>\n
Her \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu bir alan\u0131n mutlaka oldu\u011funu vurgulayan Uzman Klinik Psikolog Ba\u015fak Mutlu, ailelere \u015fu tavsiyelerde bulundu: \u201cEbeveynler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yatk\u0131n oldu\u011fu alanlar\u0131 iyi g\u00f6zlemlemeli ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n kabiliyetleri do\u011frultusunda hedefler se\u00e7melerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yanlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelirlerse \u00e7ocuk da bu alanlardaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fersiz oldu\u011funa inanacak ve potansiyelini ortaya koymakta zorlanacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun akranlar\u0131yla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler kurabilme, dayan\u0131\u015fma ve ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funda yard\u0131m isteyebilme gibi beceriler geli\u015ftirebilmesi, matematik becerisinden daha az de\u011ferli tutulmamal\u0131. Ders notlar\u0131n\u0131n tel\u00e2fisi m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisini mutsuz ve yetersiz bir insan olarak de\u011ferlendirmesinin bedeli a\u011f\u0131r olabilir.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u0130LYONLARCA \u00d6\u011eRENC\u0130 KARNE HEYECANI YA\u015eARKEN, UZMAN KL\u0130N\u0130K PS\u0130KOLOG BA\u015eAK MUTLU, KIRIK NOTLAR SEBEB\u0130YLE \u00c7OCUKLARIN KEND\u0130N\u0130 YETERS\u0130Z H\u0130SSETMES\u0130N\u0130N BEDEL\u0130N\u0130N A\u011eIR OLAB\u0130LECE\u011e\u0130 \u0130KAZINDA BULUNDU.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":256695,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[21732,1001,39849,8855,6717],"class_list":["post-256694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-bedeli","tag-agir","tag-karnenin","tag-olmasin","tag-zayif"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/zayif-karnenin-bedeli-agir-olmasin_a7ab84f.jpg?fit=1000%2C665","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-14Me","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/256694","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=256694"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/256694\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/256695"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=256694"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=256694"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=256694"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}