Uzman Klinik Psikolog Hande Ta\u015ftekin, velilere karne uyar\u0131s\u0131nda bulunarak, \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fun karnesinde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz k\u0131r\u0131klardansa, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kalbinde olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 onarmak her zaman daha zordur\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Memorial Kayseri Hastanesi Uzman Klinik Psikologu Hande Ta\u015ftekin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 karne alan velilere uyar\u0131larda bulundu. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 karnelerine g\u00f6re yarg\u0131lanmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini kaydeden Ta\u015ftekin, \u201cKarne olgusu, bir\u00e7ok anne ve baban\u0131n a\u015fikar oldu\u011fu kavramd\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z akl\u0131m\u0131za gelince istenilmeyen notlar esnas\u0131nda anne ve babalar panikler. \u00c7ocuklar i\u00e7in daha \u00e7ok cezaland\u0131rma y\u00f6ntemleri veya tatil d\u00f6nemlerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma maratonunu ba\u015flatma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi ilk akla gelir. Karneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcnsel olarak zekalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in belirli bir y\u00f6ntem de\u011fildir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n asl\u0131nda yeteneklerini ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma d\u00fczenlerini olu\u015fturmakta bize bilgi ve ipucu vermektedir. Baz\u0131 durumlarda \u00e7ocuklara y\u00fcklenen a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sorumluluk ve beklentiler \u00e7ocuklarda kendini geli\u015ftirememe gibi durumlar meydana getirir. Bu gibi durumlarda \u00e7ocuklar sevdi\u011fi ve ilgi duydu\u011fu alanlara kar\u015f\u0131da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bir engel olu\u015ftururuz. \u00d6ncelikli olarak ailelerin yapmas\u0131 gereken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu alanlar\u0131 bulmak ve nelerin onlar\u0131 motive etti\u011fini g\u00f6zlemlemek, bunun yan\u0131nda g\u00f6zlem yaparken de \u00e7ocu\u011fun asl\u0131nda \u00e7evresine ve kula kar\u015f\u0131 geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi kimli\u011fi b\u00fct\u00fcnlemek laz\u0131m. \u00c7ocu\u011fun t\u0131kand\u0131\u011f\u0131 noktalarda veya cesaret edemedi\u011fi noktalarda ailenin g\u00fcven verici bir tutum sergilemesi laz\u0131m\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ta\u015ftekin, \u201cG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de \u2018Ben yapamad\u0131m ama \u00e7ocu\u011fum yaps\u0131n. Ben olamad\u0131m ama \u00e7ocu\u011fum olsun\u2019 gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler yayg\u0131n olmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu da \u00e7ocukta proje kavram\u0131n\u0131 oturtturur. Proje kavram\u0131 oturtturan \u00e7ocuklarda kendisini s\u00fcrekli ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 kalma duygusuyla hareket ettirerek ileriki ya\u015f d\u00f6neminde yetersizlik duygular\u0131n\u0131 uyand\u0131rabilir. Yetersizlik duygular\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturan bir \u00e7ocukta veya yeti\u015fkinde ise anksiyete, kayg\u0131 bozukluklar\u0131, depresyon ve panik atak gibi daha sonras\u0131nda ruhsal problemler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilmektedir. Okul \u00f6ncesinde birincil \u00f6\u011frenme kayna\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ailedir. Daha sonras\u0131nda okul ve aile \u00e7evresi \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ikincil \u00f6\u011frenme kayna\u011f\u0131 halini al\u0131r. Bu \u00f6\u011frenme kaynaklar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in korkutucu, stresli ve zorunlu hale gelmemesi laz\u0131m. Bunun i\u00e7inde ailelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n daha rahat olaca\u011f\u0131, kendilerini daha rahat ifade edebilecekleri ortamlar\u0131 haz\u0131rlamalar\u0131 laz\u0131m. Ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocu\u011fun y\u00fckselen ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 ile orant\u0131l\u0131 olarak \u00f6d\u00fcllendirme veya l\u00fctufkar davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocu\u011fun akademik kavray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 zorlamaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocukla aile aras\u0131nda pazarl\u0131k anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 oturtmaktad\u0131r. Ailelerin ilk \u00f6nce \u015funa dikkat etmesi gerekir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun karnesinde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz k\u0131r\u0131klardansa, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kalbinde olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 onarmak her zaman daha zordur\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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