Ey ahali! Duyduk duymad\u0131k demeyin bug\u00fcn bayram!\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Covid-19 karantinas\u0131nda, \u00fcstelik bir de sokak k\u0131s\u0131tlamas\u0131 ile, \u201cbayram benim neyime\u201d dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Benim merak\u0131m asl\u0131nda, \u201cnerede o eski bayramlar\u201d diyen\nb\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu ya\u015fananlar\u0131n hepimizi \u00e7ok derinden sarst\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fikar. Fakat,\nya ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z, atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 Onlar zaten her bayramda eski bayramlar\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131\naray\u0131p da bulamayanlard\u0131! \u015eikayetleri en \u00e7ok zamane gen\u00e7li\u011fiydi\u2026 Gen\u00e7ler onlara\ng\u00f6re lakay\u0131t, de\u011ferlere sayg\u0131s\u0131z, k\u0131ymet bilmeyen, i\u015ften g\u00fc\u00e7ten de anlamayan\nbir g\u00fcruhtu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben kalabal\u0131k bir ailede, kalabal\u0131k bayramlarda \u00e7ocuktum. Ev\nhalk\u0131n\u0131n bitmek bilmeyen tela\u015f\u0131 hala g\u00f6zlerimin \u00f6n\u00fcnde. Ev tertemiz olmal\u0131,\nikraml\u0131klar \u00f6zenle haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131, giysiler yeni ve tertemiz olmal\u0131. Arefe G\u00fcn\u00fc du\u015fu,\nki \u00e7ok \u00f6nemliydi, bayram sabah\u0131na haz\u0131rlanmak i\u00e7indi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rahmetli annem, \u201cArefe G\u00fcn\u00fc ku\u015flar bile birbirini incitmez\u201d der\ndavran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za, konu\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131za daha da \u00f6zenli olmam\u0131z\u0131 isterdi. Oysa Arefe\nG\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn tela\u015f\u0131 \u00f6yle stresli olurdu ki, k\u0131r\u0131p d\u00f6kmemek ne m\u00fcmk\u00fcn!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Giysiler, ayakkab\u0131lar, perdeler, tabaklar, bardaklar, yemekler,\nikraml\u0131klar sabaha kar\u015f\u0131 ancak haz\u0131r olurdu. Sonra ev derlenir toplan\u0131r,\nkahvalt\u0131 \u00f6zenle haz\u0131rlan\u0131r ve bayram namaz\u0131na giden babam\u0131n gelmesi beklenirdi.\nBabam d\u00f6n\u00fcnce kap\u0131da kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r, bayram \u015fekeri ve kolonya ikram edilir, eli\n\u00f6p\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc ve b\u00f6ylece bayram\u0131m\u0131z resmen ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f olurdu. Bizden s\u0131ra anneme\ngelince annemde babam\u0131n elini \u00f6perdi. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden \u00f6yle g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015flerdi ve \u00e7ok\nanlaml\u0131yd\u0131. Sonra biz de annemizin elini \u00f6per sar\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131k. Daha kahvalt\u0131\nbitmeden bayram misafirleri gelirdi. Samimiyet \u00f6n planda, her \u015fey teklifsizdi.\nEspriler, kahkalar havalarda u\u00e7u\u015furdu\u2026 Ben ne \u00e7ok el \u00f6perdim. Sanki y\u00fczlerce\ngibi gelirdi. Bunlar ev i\u00e7inde olanlar. Bir de kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131p bayramla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\nvard\u0131 ki. Kap\u0131da kar\u015f\u0131lama \u015fekline g\u00f6re \u015feker az m\u0131 gelecek \u00e7ok mu tahminler\nederdik. Bazen para olurdu ikram\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir g\u00fcn, daha ilkokuldayken, birden b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc hissettim.\nKap\u0131 kap\u0131 bayramla\u015fmay\u0131 kestim. Ev i\u00e7inde daha \u00e7ok bizimkilerin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\npayla\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. Ancak bayram tela\u015f\u0131 giderek y\u00fck oluyordu omuzlar\u0131mda. Dolup\nta\u015fan evde s\u00fcrekli ikram, g\u00fcler y\u00fcz, sohbet, bula\u015f\u0131k d\u00f6rtgeninde yoruluyordum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7ti ve zamaneler b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp de teknoloji ile tan\u0131\u015f\u0131nca\nbayramlar biraz farkl\u0131la\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Daha az misafir gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131 mesela.\nBayramlar k\u0131sa mesajlar ile kutlanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Eller \u00f6p\u00fcl\u00fcrken duda\u011fa de\u011fil de\n\u00e7eneye dokunduruluyordu. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz de do\u011fal olarak, \u201cnerde o eski bayramlar\u201d\ndemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Tad\u0131 tuzu ka\u00e7m\u0131\u015ft\u0131 baz\u0131 \u015feylerin\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7ti, mezuniyet, ard\u0131ndan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131 derken ben\nbayramlar\u0131 ya\u015fayamaz oldum. Haz\u0131rl\u0131k tela\u015f\u0131 ayn\u0131 kald\u0131 ama bayramlar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma\ng\u00fcnlerim oldu. Bir \u00e7ok \u015fey yava\u015f yava\u015f anlam\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti. Bayram, tatil demekti\nmesela bir \u00e7o\u011fumuz i\u00e7in. D\u00f6rt g\u00fcnl\u00fck bayram\u0131n iki g\u00fcn\u00fc tatil. Haftan\u0131n alt\u0131\ng\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bizim gibi bas\u0131n mensuplar\u0131 i\u00e7in bayram\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n tatil f\u0131rsat\u0131\nolmas\u0131 bir nimet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu rutin yani, ya\u015fam tela\u015f\u0131, her \u015feyi s\u0131radanla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\nhayat\u0131m\u0131zda taki bu Pandemiye kadar. Bir vir\u00fcs, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kendi ile ba\u015f ba\u015fa\nkalmaya, yal\u0131n olmaya, de\u011ferlerini sorgulatmaya zorlad\u0131 adeta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yeni hayat tarz\u0131m\u0131z insanlar\u0131n konforsuzlu\u011fu \u00fczerine kurulu.\nYani, maske, eldiven, steril s\u0131v\u0131 ya da kolonyal\u0131 ya\u015fam. Bir de en az bir bu\u00e7uk\nmetrelik mesafe konusu var. Hele de bizim gibi dip dibe ya\u015fayan insanlar i\u00e7in\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Herkes \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011frendi mutlaka bu s\u00fcre zarf\u0131nda. Ama en \u00e7ok\n\u015fikayet etmemeyi ve \u015f\u00fckretmeyi \u00f6\u011frendik belki de. Neyin \u015fikayeti ki? Hayat \u00fc\u00e7\nzamandan olu\u015fuyor i\u015fte. Biri ge\u00e7mi\u015f, biri \u015fimdi, biri gelecek. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f gitti, \u015fimdi\nya\u015f\u0131yorum, yar\u0131n var m\u0131 bilmiyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu, bir idrak asl\u0131nda. Hayat bu kadar i\u015fte. Ya\u015f\u0131yorum ve\nsa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131y\u0131m \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ge\u00e7mi\u015f bayramlar kalabal\u0131km\u0131\u015f, eskisi gibi de\u011filmi\u015f. Bak\u0131n \u015fimdi o kalabal\u0131k da yok. Klasik bir bayramla\u015fma rit\u00fceli bile yok. Bayramla\u015fmalar telefonla ve g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc konu\u015fma ile yap\u0131lacak. Al\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin ele\u015ftirdi\u011fi gen\u00e7li\u011fin zamanlar\u0131nday\u0131z \u015fimdi. Bu vir\u00fcs\u00fcn yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fartlar, teknolojinin nimetleri ile, \u201cnerede o eski bayramlar\u201d bile dedirtmeden, bizi ald\u0131 ba\u015fka bir boyuta ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130ster memnun olun ister olmay\u0131n. \u015eimdi bize d\u00fc\u015fen, \u201cmerhaba yeni ya\u015fam\u201d deyip kucak a\u00e7mak. Tabi, sosyal mesafeyi koruyarak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130yi bayramlar…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dostlukla\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ey ahali! Duyduk duymad\u0131k demeyin bug\u00fcn bayram!\u2026 Covid-19 karantinas\u0131nda, \u00fcstelik bir de sokak k\u0131s\u0131tlamas\u0131 ile, \u201cbayram benim neyime\u201d dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyim. Benim merak\u0131m asl\u0131nda, \u201cnerede o eski bayramlar\u201d diyen b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc. Bu ya\u015fananlar\u0131n hepimizi \u00e7ok derinden sarst\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fikar. Fakat, ya ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z, atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 Onlar zaten her bayramda eski bayramlar\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 aray\u0131p da bulamayanlard\u0131! \u015eikayetleri en […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":263208,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[646,655],"tags":[23995,64604,64671],"class_list":["post-263207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kose-yazilari","category-son-dakika","tag-bayram","tag-covid-19","tag-ramazan-bayrami"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/baklava.jpg?fit=276%2C183","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-16th","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=263207"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263207\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":263211,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/263207\/revisions\/263211"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/263208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=263207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=263207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=263207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}