{"id":69275,"date":"2019-03-04T09:38:07","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T06:38:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/arkadaslari-sayesinde-is-kadini-oldu\/"},"modified":"2019-03-04T09:38:13","modified_gmt":"2019-03-04T06:38:13","slug":"arkadaslari-sayesinde-is-kadini-oldu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/arkadaslari-sayesinde-is-kadini-oldu\/","title":{"rendered":"Arkada\u015flar\u0131 sayesinde i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131 oldu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ordu\u2019nun \u00dcnye il\u00e7esinde ya\u015fayan 5 \u00e7ocuk annesi Havva Dolma, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n deste\u011fi ile kendi i\u015fini kurdu. Havva Dolma, 5 evlad\u0131na hem annelik hem de babal\u0131k yap\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

E\u015finden bo\u015fanmas\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan hi\u00e7bir mesle\u011fi olmadan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bakmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen anne 39 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Havva Dolma, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nerisi ile \u00dcnye M\u00fcr\u00fcvvet Vidinli Halk E\u011fitim Merkezinde diki\u015f kursu ile terzilik \u00f6\u011frendi. Kurslara kat\u0131lmadan \u00f6nce hi\u00e7bir el beceresi olmayan Dolma, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n yard\u0131mlar\u0131 ile \u00fc\u00e7 makine terzili\u011fe ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u015finde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ilgilenmekten zorluk \u00e7ekti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen 5 \u00e7ocuk annesi Dolma, “Uzun zaman \u00f6nce e\u015fimden ayr\u0131ld\u0131m. Daha \u00f6nce ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda diki\u015f i\u015finde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorken, arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n \u00f6neri ve destekleri sayesinde bug\u00fcn kendi i\u015fimi kurdum. \u0130lk zamanlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m ufak olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in alm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fum \u00fccretler ev masraflar\u0131na yetiyordu. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e hem evin masraflar\u0131 hem de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yordu. Arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131n destekleri ile \u00e7e\u015fitli yerlerden \u00f6d\u00fcn\u00e7 \u00fc\u00e7 makine temin ettim. M\u00fcr\u00fcvvet Vidinli Halk E\u011fitim Merkezinden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m e\u011fitimle beraber kendi i\u015fimi kurdum. D\u00fckkan\u0131mdan kazanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fum para ile hem evimi ge\u00e7indiriyorum hem de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n okul ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131yorum. Be\u015f k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu annesiyim. En b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00fckkan\u0131mla elde etti\u011fim gelirle evlendirdim” dedi.<\/p>\n

“O bize hem anne hem baba oldu”<\/p>\n

Annesinin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 anlatan k\u0131z\u0131 Sibel Kaymak, \u201cBiz be\u015f k\u0131z karde\u015fiz ve en b\u00fcy\u00fck ablam Simge evlendi. Annem arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n deste\u011fi ile Halk E\u011fitimden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 diki\u015f e\u011fitimi ile terzi d\u00fckkan\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131. \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 annemin i\u015f yerinden kazanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu gelir ile ge\u00e7indiriyoruz. Annem bizim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yor. Bizler de elimizden geldi\u011fi m\u00fcddet\u00e7e ona yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. O bizim i\u00e7in hem anne hem de baba oldu\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015f yerini a\u00e7t\u0131ktan sonra emanet ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 terzi makinelerini geri vererek yeni makinelerle i\u015fini b\u00fcy\u00fctmeye haz\u0131rlanan Havva Dolma, “Ben e\u015finden bo\u015fanan kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za her zaman \u015funu s\u00f6ylemek isterim; Bayan olarak hayattan asla pes edilmemesi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesinden vazge\u00e7memelerini s\u00f6ylemek isterim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen hayat bazen bitti dedi\u011fimiz yerden ba\u015fl\u0131yor” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.

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ORDU’NUN \u00dcNYE \u0130L\u00c7ES\u0130NDE YA\u015eAYAN 5 \u00c7OCUK ANNES\u0130 HAVVA DOLMA (39), UZUN B\u0130R S\u00dcRE \u00d6NCE KOCASINDAN BO\u015eANDIKTAN SONRA ARKADA\u015eLARININ DESTE\u011e\u0130 \u0130LE KEND\u0130 \u0130\u015e\u0130N\u0130 KURARAK HAYAT M\u00dcCADELES\u0130 VER\u0130YOR.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":69276,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[7808,432,4541,77,5213],"class_list":["post-69275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-arkadaslari","tag-is","tag-kadini","tag-oldu","tag-sayesinde"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tvturk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/arkadaslari-sayesinde-is-kadini-oldu_b308c3b.jpg?fit=1000%2C666","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paKIfm-i1l","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69275"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69275\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":69284,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69275\/revisions\/69284"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/69276"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.tvturk.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}